I’m saying it is the other way around - Israel is getting the “special treatment”.
For starters, all of the major military powers in the world - the US, China, and Russia - get less scrutiny and criticism than Israel, even though their warfare is often engaged in with far more brutality.
This is not merely a subjective impression. Just look at figures: the percentage of UN resolutions concerning Israel/Palestine/Lebanon compared with other conflicts show an absurd over-emphasis on the conflicts in that part of the world, which acts as a good proxy for “scrutiny and criticism”.
Here’s a helpful table:
The conflict involving Israel is the subject of 249 resolutions, though the total number of persons killed in the relevant time was 6,935. That’s a ratio of deaths to resolutions of aprox. 28 to 1.
For other conflicts in the same time-frame:
Second Congo War - 72,375 to 1
Second Liberian Civil War - 150,000 to 0
Second Chechen War - 200,000 to 0
War in Afghanistan - 603 to 1
War in Darfur -12,500 to 1
2003 invasion of Iraq - 2,333 to 1
Iraq War (2003-present) - 10,000 to 1
There is nothing even close.
I suppose one could argue that the Israeli conflicts during that time-period were more brutal than (say) the Chechen War, the Second Congo War, or the War in Darfur. However, the more natural argument is that, fir whatever reason, this conflict engages the attention (generally, it need hardly be added, unfavourable to Israel) in a highly disproportionate manner: that Israel is treated as a “special case”.