So, I’ve been looking for a job now for a little over six months. I’ve had a grand total of three interviews and none of them panned out even though I was well qualified for them. I know a lot of the problem is the job market and the fact that I haven’t worked in four years (being a mom). And I also have a sneaking suspicion that my reason for leaving my last job is coming back to bite me in the butt. So I was hoping for some advice on how to best answer some of the questions regarding my job history.
Normally, when they ask why I haven’t had a job in four years, I reply that I took time off for family obligations. I feel that it’s better to not get into too much detail and it also doesn’t make them suspicious about the gap of unemployment. This is what I put on my resume as well. Unfortunately, in at least one instance, they asked for a bit more detail and I revealed that it was for raising a child and the whole tone of the interview changed immediately. And I’m concerned that by me putting that on my resumes and cover letters that it might be costing me potential interviews. How else could I explain four years without working?
And the there’s the fact the last job I had, I quit because of stress. It’s the same industry as the jobs I’m applying for now but it was so much more stressful than anything I had before that I had to leave for my own health. I’ve been truthful, saying that the stress levels at the job were too high but it just makes me feel that there must be some better answer that’s not outright lying. Or maybe I can word it differently? I’m just getting pretty discouraged right now with job hunting and trying to do what I can to improve any future chances.