So I have been spending lots of time with K* recently. I spent the last two nights over at her place, which rocked though my cats are mighty pissed.
I decided that it is time. Time for her to
Duh DUH DUHHHHHH
meet my parents.
So we are going to dinner on Friday night. Not sure where we are going yet. My parents have a thing for buffets. I suggested a steak place. We’ll see if they want to do that.
This should be interesting.
Slee
*K, for those who haven’t been following this story, is the woman I have been dating. It started well, went to ‘just friends’, escalated to ‘friends who sleep together’ and now seems to be on the serious track.
I’m happy for you that things are progressing. I remember that iffy stage between just friends and friends with benefits and you seemed less than happy with the situation. I’m glad things are progressing.
Yeah, I was less than happy at that point. Now, however, things are pretty cool (though she still says friends more than I would like). We are seeing a lot of each other, she is asking me over all the time. In fact she just asked me to go over and have lunch with her. So I am headed up there now. Also, she just called me ‘Love’. It was at the end of the conversation, just a quick ‘See ya soon, love.’ kinda thing. I have not heard her use that term before…
Dont’cha think you might be pushing the young lady a bit to hard? You run the risk of making her feel like she’s being rushed into something she’s not quite ready for. It could backfire and ruin a good thing before it has time to develop.
I have had that thought in regards to meeting my parents. At this point, however, she is the one who is instigating most things. I stayed over at her place twice this week, both times she invited me (and I ain’t gonna argue). We were going to go out on Friday anyway, once again her idea. I suggested dinner with the 'rents and explained it with ‘My parents keep hearing about you and I haven’t seen them in a while. Plus they keep hearing about you’, which is true.
Today I went over to her place with lunch*. Once again, her idea. She wanted to do something after she got done working tonight as well. I would except I have a ton of stuff to do before I go to St. Thomas next week.
Also, I have meet all of her family that is in town. Her daughter, sister and Mom. She has met my sister, we had dinner at my sisters house one night.
I am not pushing at this point. I don’t think dinner with my parents is going to scare her off considering that she seems to be highly interested in seeing me all the time. I am getting tons of messages from her, calls, emails and texts. At this point it seems that she is actually the one who is pushing things.
So dinner went well. And by well I mean that my Mom and K talked a ton and me and my Dad just sat there and ate, saying a word every now and then. My Mom and K got on well. So did K and my Dad, though he didn’t have much time to say anything
After dinner we went back to my place and made like bunnies. Very randy bunnies.
This morning I took K over to her Moms place so K could pick up her daughter. That went well. I had met her Mom before, nice lady. K also referred to me as her boyfriend. Yay!
