Inspired by the “Well endowed or Great body” thread I have a question for (mostly) the male members of the board.
If you had the choice between two woman one of which was very pretty and the other of which was extra kinky which of the two would you choose?
This is assuming that the women were identical in all other aspects, and of course that the pretty woman refused to become kinkier and the kinky woman refused plastic surgury.
Is the beautiful woman extremely conservative sexually? Or just not adventurous? And just how kinky is the other one? There’re boundaries I don’t want to cross.
Similarly, how attractive is the kinky woman? Ugly? Plain? Cute?
However, assuming that my Lady and I had never met, I’d have to settle on the kinky woman, assuming she were not fugly. I could probably deal with someone plain, even frumpy, since in the long run, personality wins the day. Being kinky sort of goes with that.
If she is my kind of kinky, then I’d probably go for the kinky one.
But there are many kinds of kinky.
Plus there are many women who are not considered “very pretty” but I find attractive anyway.
Just how do I know she is kinky anyway?
Ugh, beautiful. Kinky has a way of rapidly outstripping my comfort zones. Too far and suddenly I find myself wearing a Batman costume with no pants while some mad woman is beating me with hot noodles and trying to make me yodel The Stars and Stripes through a mouthful of kiwi yogurt.
Beautiful by far. How often do you get to be kinky versus just having to look at her? Anyway, there is no way that I am doing anything sexual with someone is less than beautiful so the kinky one wouldn’t be much use to me sleeping out in the garage.
Is the beautiful gal a total prude who will refuse to do it with the lights on, never mind use the word “fellatio” in a sentence? Or just “vanilla”-ish? Is she Playmate-of-the-Year-after-they’re-done-with-PhotoShop gorgeous or just on the upper-quartile group? Is she an idiot?
Is the kinky girl’s scene likely to end up with an arrest, eviction, infection, or permanent disfigurement? Or are we talking more like Ginger-Lynn-in-her-prime-type willingness to do what it takes to please? Are her looks first-standard-deviation ordinary(*), or is she Sasquatch? Is she an idiot?
(OK, so if we got just a reasonably average-looking person with a young-Ginger-Lynn disposition, vs. a model-type Ice Queen, it’s a freakin’ no-brainer)
Kinky is all fine and dandy. Don’t get me wrong. There’s just something about the way a truly beautiful woman catches your breath in your throat and makes the heart pinch up a bit.
That’s a very good point. I’ve corrupted a couple myself.
In general, I’d rather the woman I was going to hook up with be beautiful, and the woman I’m already hooked up with be kinky. (Not in a cheating sense, in a different situation sense. Grass is always greener and all.)
I’d say kinky gets a point on the scale, so a kinky 8 is equal to a conservative 9. Freaky Deaky adds another point. Dirty skanky would ratchet it up another. HOWEVER, if she is “living the lifestyle”, that’s a deal-breaker. I don’t want either her or me to be barking out orders to clean dishes as part of a role play. Keep sex games for sex time, thank you.
Beauty gets old. The hottest woman in the world knows at least one (and probably more) guy who is sick of her. Kinky has a much longer shelf life.
Pretty is as pretty does ("…so, what is it that you like to do?" ) I’d much rather spend my time with someone who has a great personality and an active imagination.
I’m with Zebra on this one. My definitions of kinky might stretch over into perverted for her, and likewise, so kinky is a crapshoot, really. OTOH, beautiful is right out there where I can see it, plus, I (presumably) still get to have sex, so all is well…
Unless she don’t give no, ahem, oral lovin’ THAT, friends, is a deal breaker…seriously, no matter how beautiful.
I would go with the beautiful girl - aside from watching the occasional tentacle hentai anime, I am not that kinky, and vanilla sex with an attractive woman would fit me quite fine.