I hear this a lot from mothers. My husband manages a lot on his own, but he won’t cook, so lately I just make my own food and he eats his beans or whatever. But I also enjoy cooking and as Wee Weasel gets older I know I will have to start cooking again. My husband always works late so I find it pointless to cook a big meal to eat alone. It triggers all these ancient childhood feelings of neglect. I hate that he works late, and now that we have a child I hate it even more. Once he’s back in a physical office I will be putting the kid to bed every night and he won’t be home until after. There’s not a lot he can really do about it though.