Now, hold on a minute.
As someone who went to college at age 16, and has regretted that decision ever since, I can see at least the motivation behind the judge’s actions, if not the actions themselves. Most 15-year-olds are NOT ready for college. They may be ready academically (and I was), but they are NOT ready emotionally.
My first two years of college were sheer hell. I had nothing in common with anyone else there, and I couldn’t make friends. The college I went to didn’t do a thing about easing my situation–hell, they didn’t even seem to know what to do about it. Since I hadn’t turned 16 in time to get my driver’s license before I went to college, I couldn’t even drive home on the weekends, and that was a major consideration as I was living 80 miles away. I underwent a severe bout of depression, and I don’t really think I recovered for the next seven years.
Furthermore, as someone who now works at a university, I take exception to the rule that this woman cannot start her bachelor’s degree as being called “really, really dumb.” Colleges are allowed to set their own entrance requirements! Big surprise! And if those entrance requirements include a high school diploma or a GED, that’s the rules. Colleges aren’t obligated to take in everybody who applies.
And yes, Lynn, it may be “cruel” for a kid to have to sit through high school classes. Lord knows it was boring as hell for me to sit through my last year of high school, as I’d already taken every senior-level course save one. I, too, chafed at the idea of having to sit through a year’s worth of dull, boring courses. I thought that my problems would be solved when I went to college. They weren’t. What would I have given to spend two years in high school not working so hard on my academics and instead concentrating on extra-curricular activities, volunteering and–most importantly–just being a kid!
And, boy is this dad ever a treat. “I’ll go to prison before my daughter goes to high school?” I don’t think he’s guilty of neglect at all. But it’s misplaced priorities, no doubt. If his daughter is mature enough to go to college, then he should be able to distance himself from the situation.
In conclusion, let me say this. What is the advantage of graduating from college at age 17 or 20? Absolutely zero. Either you go into the work force, where prospective employers will question your maturity level, or you will go into grad school, where the cycle will merely be repeated. I’d give everything I had to have not lost my childhood. She’ll always be able to go to college, but she’s never going to be 16 again.