Let's talk about fisting!

How… I mean… but… Where does the arm go!? :eek:

Guy here. Ms Hook and I have never tried it, and frankly I don’t see it on the radar.

As for myself; I’d rather blow a rabid kangaroo than have someone stick their hand up my ass.

And as for having it in up to the elbow…ewwwwww!

Where else? Obviously the receiver has to do a lot of cleansing beforehand. And like I said, I was probably pushing up against his diaphragm.

I have seen a video of someone going in almost to the shoulder. I have no idea how it was done. And no, he wasn’t an amputee.

Oh yes, it’s possible. Some guys can take two fists/arms at once.

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“A giraffe’s fist is the diameter of a dinner plate.”

How YOU doin’? :wink:

I’ve actually experienced fisting and quite enjoyed it.

It was a one-off sort of thing; the guy was never my boyfriend or anything. Just a one-time hookup.It was never discussed, nor did he ask me if I wanted him to try this. He worked up to it very slowly and there was plenty of, um, ahem, natural lubrication involved so there was no need for artificial assistance in that area. (Which means I was enjoying it.)

It did not hurt a bit.

It felt good, but it wasn’t something that was going to get me off, and eventually, got to be a little intense – just a smidge uncomfortable. I said, “Okay, that was fun, but that’s enough now, thank you.” And he was, “Oh, sorry, I was totally into it; maybe I got a little carried away.” I assured him that he hadn’t hurt me, I’d enjoyed it and we moved on to the next agenda item.

He was very gentle and I didn’t feel at all as if my vajayjay was being used as a punching bag or anything. I’d probably do it again, but if I was asked, that wouldn’t really be on my top ten list of favorite sexual activities.

Obviously not the case for all women. I know two women who climax rather heartily upon the stroking of their cervix.

So…three “I’ve heard of someone doing it” and three “I’ve done it” positively…I hope I didn’t get the numbers wrong.

So anyone know why they do it so often during porn? Either there is a market for this stuff out there or I’m looking at the wrong type of porn. Completely turns me off if someone’s stuffing their whole hand in there, much less a foot…! Ew yuck!

I’m not sure they do it that often in mainstream porn. Adam Glasser, aka Seymore Butts was charged with obscenity-related offenses for distributing videos that included fisting a few years back.
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From what I’ve seen, it’s not common in most mainstream porn.

… so all those visceral organs are just getting pushed around somewhere?

There’s video of both on x-tube.

As to the OP, yes I’ve done it with several (same-sex) partners but only as the top. I have zero interest in experiencing it as a bottom.

As to why it’s sexy, it’s hard to describe. There’s just something incredibly intimate about having your hand inside someone. There has to be a lot of trust there because of the possibilities of injury and the like.

Dogzilla’s experience was basically the same as mine. It never came up, it just sort of worked up to it, wasn’t uncomfortable. Not sure how much he got up there but it was enjoyable at the time. And I agree… not in my top ten but I wouldn’t say no to doing it again.

Well . . . yes. But your intestines are pretty good at accommodating changing states of fullness or emptiness, and this is just a case of the large intestine just being REALLY full. And most of your organs can accommodate a certain amount of flexibility. Otherwise, athletes and yogaphiles would constantly be dislocating their internal organs.

Which is not to say that there aren’t risks. But people who do this on a regular basis are pretty well-informed about precautions . . . otherwise they wouldn’t be around to keep doing it. The guy I did it with was extremely experienced, and he sort of guided me throughout the procedure. And he was smart enough to check the length of my fingernails before we started . . . and to make sure I was sober. He was also quite tall, so his body could accommodate a few more inches of my arm.

  1. Only if she wants me to.
  2. I don’t find the act particularly sexy, but her hunger to consume me, so to speak, can be really sexy.

FTR, I’ve only done it once, but when she asked me to, it came as a surprise but I was eager (sloooowly, of course) to oblige. Still a visual that stays with me.

I’m a guy, and nope, never fisted anyone, nor really had a desire to do so- guy or girl.

But I have given a prostate exam to a few guys. And I gotta say- I can certainly understand the appeal for some guys to want to do that, Panache- your descriptions of it kinda were interesting. I was really surprised at how warm it was too in there. I can certainly understand a bit better the appeal of anal sex there as well. So it did broaden my horizons on that front.

Oh- and might as well mention I have no desire to be fisted myself either and not looking forwards to whenever my own first prostate exam will come along. Just because I understand the appeal of the giver, doesn’t mean I know really want to know anything about what the recipient feels. But I suppose in due time, most of us guys will find that one out…

Similar story, only we were young and dumb and didn’t conceive of it as fisting (no fist made before insertion). I gotta say, though … this girl’s vagina, I think, was somehow different from most other women’s. I could get four fingers into her with minimal foreplay and no lube except her own. She could have done various kinds of vaginal insertion porn if she wanted – I’d be she could’ve worked up to the fat end of a baseball bat within a few minutes :eek:

Er… doesn’t a prostate exam just require a finger?

'Cause if not, death doesn’t sound too bad.

  1. Have you ever tried this? How many times?

Yes. Many.

  1. Did you actually enjoy it? How much was pain, and how much was pleasure?

Half and Half I would say. Well, the pleasure is more of a mental thing because my husband gets pleasure from doing it to me.

  1. What was the reason you tried it? Would you ever try it, and why would you?

My husband really likes doing it for some reason. I didn’t really “try” it on purpose. He just did it one day. After the shock value, I realized how turned on it got him so we incorporated it into our sex life. We have a sub/dom relationship in the bedroom.

  1. Would you ever fist your partner?

Probably not.

True, I was just thinking of my guy who happened to be stuck w/ me as a student- so he got to have a double exam- first by the doctor and then by the student. He didn’t seem to enjoy it much at all. So I’m just going by his reaction on the matter. :frowning:

I do not like kinky sex
I do not like leather necks
I would not like to fist my love
I would not like to use a glove
Not in a box
Not with a fox
I would not dress up as Malcom X
I would not enjoy kinky sex

The fist is usually made after insertion, unless the receiver is already extremely loose.