I’m a little puzzled why the OP split it up into separate sets of questions for men and women. Fisting is an equal-opportunity sex act: Everyone has a hand, and everyone has at least one orifice.
Yes, but women have two orifices, and men have only one, and there are obviously huge differences between an anus and a vagina. And yes, I wish we’d had different threads, but it’s too late now.
I would not want to smell like lox.
Because I’m primarily concerned as to women’s feelings about receiving it and the rate of fisting in the general population, thus the slant of my questions. If I cared about a different aspect of the issue I would ask different questions.
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Have you ever tried this? How many times?
Twice. Neither time was it actually able to go all the way in, in spite of poppers. -
Did you actually enjoy it? How much was pain, and how much was pleasure?
Not a whole lot of pain, he went slowly, and I am accommodating. But being full for so long was uncomfortable after a while. And I had the same reaction I always do to large objects (before, only toys), where it’s lots of fun for a while, but then so much prostate-ramming is flaccidation-inducing.
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What was the reason you tried it? Would you ever try it, and why would you?
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Would you ever fist your partner?
I fisted him once, he was apparently very experienced at it, I used lots of lube and he gobbled my hand right up.
I think it’s hot to watch fisting porn though, if the guys are attractive.
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Have you ever tried this? How many times? 6 or 7 times
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Did you actually enjoy it? How much was pain, and how much was pleasure?
Most of it was pleasure although i was sore for the next day: if it’s done well it can give you multiple orgasms -
What was the reason you tried it? Curiosity
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Would you ever fist your partner? Never been asked
I saw this thread when it was first posted, and hemmed and hawed about responding. Then it fell off the first page, just when I’d resolved to do my part to fight ignorance.
So what the heck.
1. Have you ever tried this? How many times? Yes. I don’t know if I can put a number to it, but vaginal fisting has been a regular, primary sexual activity between my partner and I since early this summer. Prior to that, I had gotten most of my hand into the vaginas of other women, but never been fisted myself. I wasn’t turned off by the idea, but had no particular interest in it and none of my girlfriends ever brought up the possibility of them doing me, until a certain very special someone finally did.
2. Did you actually enjoy it? How much was pain, and how much was pleasure? I love it. Love it love it love it love it love it. The only pain was during the first few tries, and was due only to some of the external skin being unused to stretching. Now it’s nothing but pleasure. Heck, I’d say conventional boy-girl intercourse tends to have more pain involved, if only due to the likelihood of friction, thrusting too hard, etc.
3. What was the reason you tried it? I was a little bit curious, and my partner was very turned on by the idea.
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4. Would you ever fist your partner?** Happily, and I’d enjoy doing so more now knowing how it feels myself.
I have found amongst some lesbians, fisting is taken as not-quite-normal but not too eyebrow raising either, whereas others respond with shock and occasional horror. It definitely feels like the most-intimate, main-event level sex act for me, comparable with hetero intercourse, though the feelings associated (both physical and emotional) are rather different. I was very surprised how it didn’t just feel like I was being penetrated by something gigantic, but rather, that I was interfacing with my partner’s hand.
Yeah, I never would have believed it either.
While stationed in Germany one of the local “Party Girls” showed up at one of weeklyBBQ’s we had at the Officer’s quarters.
After a evening of drinking her and I went to my room for some serious sex,
she wanted me to put apillow under her hips and start placing one finger after another inside her with the help of genereous amounts of lube. She finally had me put my thumb in the palm of my hand. Once I was up to the knuckles she shoved against my hand and swallowed it up to my wrist!! She told me to start clenching my hand and opening it again while twisting my hand and trusting back and forth inside. Her reaction was incredible!! She was doing every move like she was impaled on my hand, doing hip thrusts and picking her ass about a foot off the bed all the while making animal noises and nearly separating my shoulder. After that she just wanted to lie there while I moved inside her. We actually napped for several hours before she wanted to disengage. She then confessed that one of her bi girlfriends and her had slept entire nights with each other’s hand inside each other! She just wanted to see what it was with a larger (man’s) hand inside.
A few weeks later during an after another party, we found ourselves back inside my room. Vowing to give me the “Ultimate Blowjob”, she started going down on me while I layed on my back. I thought it was strange when she put a pillow and a towel under the small of my back .
She started putting her lubed up fingers in my ass and when I protested she just kept joking saying things like"Don’t be a wussy" and “take it like a man”.
Just as I started to ejaculate she shoved HER hand up to the wrist in ME!
I didn’t think I would EVER stop coming in her mouth! All I can say I never felt an jolt like that! She even insisted leaving her hand inside me for an hour.
It might seem Gay to do that but it was incredible. Before we went our separate ways we we did it couple more times with me finally fitting my hand inside her ass!! Even once we slept for several hours with each other’s hand inside the other. What an incredible and strange feeling it is, we could actually feel each other’s heartbeat!
After the first time she introduced me to enimas. (Oh, how those Germans enjoy that. But that’s another story) And insisted we clean each other out with warm water, (it really helps to relax the anal muscles) and wearing latex gloves to prevent dirt and germs on the hands from starting vaginal or anal infections. The gloves also seems to make the hand go in much more smoothly with less resistance. Just use LOTS of lube and have towels under you to soak up the excess body fluids and lube.
Like I said, it’s a strange way of showing affections but it is about the most intimate way of connecting with each other. Especially just laying there resting and talking.
If you have a willing and open minded partner(male or female) and want a incredible experience, give it a try!!!
Holy lord jesus christ almighty. . . of all the threads on this message board, why in god’s name am I reading this one . . . “beyond the elbow” oh christ
So, for the women:
- Have you ever tried this? How many times?
Nope.
- Did you actually enjoy it? How much was pain, and how much was pleasure?
- What was the reason you tried it? Would you ever try it, and why would you?
Would not try it. It is visually disturbing to me, and I can’t imagine it being physically appealing to me.
- Would you ever fist your partner
Nope.
Um. This is seriously one of the most disturbing threads I have ever read.
Heterosexual guy here. I have fisted my partners many times. It is an intense turn-on and frankly I love to do it.
I’m a bit surprised at how few posters have tried it. For me it was a natural progression as I grew more sexually experienced.
Man here; I would fist a girl if she were really into it, but I don’t care about it one way or the other. I’ve attempted it on me as the receiver, and I, uh, don’t go that big.
I have have a friend who’s really into fisting. She has an object insertion fetish that she gets into sometimes. Yes we’ve done it a few times, that’s how I know I don’t care either way, but if she’s into it, then it’s into her. It’s interesting that she’s pregnant now, I wonder how the delivery will go…
I hate the trend of spitting in porn. It’s stupid and un-lady-like.
I might have complied had I ever been asked but I would have been filled with anxiety. It she needed a diameter corresponding to my fist, my penis would proven to be woefully short. So to speak.
Plain old sex is so much fun, why do people seek out these perversions? I mean, hell, what’s wrong with zucchinis and cucumbers and nice fat candles and such? Not to mention twisting, turning, knobby, oversize battery powered dildos and threesomes with freakishly hugely endowed male participants? I just prefer to keep things simple; I guess I have no imagination.
Ah, so this is the Gonzo porn I’ve been hearing about.
Zombie-Thread Fisting??? I thought all the really scary Halloween movies were Over… yikes!
Have you footed your partner? 'Cause that also seems like a natural progression, and… ow. Also, ew. :eek:
Closing thread.
Just because.