I DO NOT want to watch her put it on. She’s either a) gotta meet me at the door in it (I love that) or b) go into the bathroom or send me to the den or something while she gets dressed. In the case of option (b), she should take her good sweet time and allow me to cleanse my eye-pallet of the sight of her in normal clothes.
Bonus Points for any outfit that can remain on during the entire sex session, and that has to be without any chafing. None of that pulling the panties to the side crap.
I prefer a nice open-cup corset/bustier with garters and stockings, no panties. That way all the toys are revealed in a nice sexy framework. It’s like putting a picture in a nice frame with a mat, it just sets everthing off and gives it a certain air!
I’ve never been especially interested in women wearing lingerie. F’rinstance, if I see a chick in some skimpy thing on TV, in a lingerie catalog or elsewhere… it really doesn’t do anything for me.
But… as someone else mentioned here…on one occasion that a gf jumped me and she was wearing some skimpy thing… ka-ching!!
But I’d have to say… 99% of the time… it doesn’t do it for me.
I do, however, greatly enjoy wearing silky things and flannel. Though the hubster has not seen me in flannel I enjoy wearing it - the softer and fluffier the better… mmm comfy!
It basically comes down to: why spend 60 quid on something that isn’t gonna stay on for more than 5 minutes? Also too fiddly. I’d rather just be stroked and stuff, not spend 10 bloody minutes trying to unfasten the belts and worrying about getting a run in my stocking… sheesh… No thanks.
“Lingerie is lame and boring. It’s going to be removed anyway so what’s the point? Get to the goods.”
Sorry, but you’ve got this all wrong.
Lingerie is like the wrapping on a Christmas present. The wrappping itself is nice to look at and hides wonderful surprises just below the surface. You can either rip into the present, ignoring the wrapping altogether, or you can take my approach -
unwrap a little of the present, see if that piques your interest, unwrap a little more, savoring the whole experience, and then unwrap the remaining parts. Then, you get to play with the whole thing.
Darn you, Lobsang! Now I can’t get the image of Natalie wearing custard out of my head! My best efforts to rein in my imagination result in nothing but a change of flavor …
I don’t care for lingerie…it is swimsuits that catch my attention.
I am partial to those next-to-nothing thong bikinis, or a sexy one-oiece which turns transparent when wet!
Damn! I wish those things were legal here!
I like some lingerie - ‘classy’ stuff, if you will. In the OP, you mentioned fishnet stockings - I agree, that’s a turnoff. But more conservative stockings on my wife are a wonder to behold.
I agree that stuff that looks, or is, uncomfortable, and stuff that looks lacy but is actually scratchy to the touch, is not worth it.
I also like when my wife goes to bed in just a hockey jersey, but that may just be me.
If you’re not big on lingerie, but like the satiny feel…
Get you some satin sheets quicklike. Even if you’re sleeping alone, it’s wonderful stuff.
[sub]However, if you’re getting into a full float waterbed, with satin sheets, wearing a satiny smooth bit of ligerie, grab hold of your SO for all you’re worth. You might just end up out in the hallway if you start sliding, under these circumstances. Really.[/sub]
Actually I’m turned by women. But if she has gone through the trouble of shopping for and buying and putting a really nice corset and garter and handcuff whose fur lining matches the color of the rest of the ensemble then I have to be impressed and arounse that she did that for me.
I love surprising my man (Padeye) with some new piece of sexy stuff I bought. I agree that some lingerie is too “foofy” and frilly. But I do love bustiers and garter belts and stockings… and gratefully, so does he! I have a whole section in the closet reserved for lingerie and I enjoy picking out something from time to time to surprise him. Normally I don’t like fishnet stockings either, but they went great with the bright pink Moulin Rouge-type bustier and thong set I bought to surprise him last Valentine’s Day!
I think Lingerie is a nice addition. For me, though, it’s not the corset/garter stuff that does it. I like the flowing, silky, clingy-but-too-so stuff. Some of it’s a texture thing; I love the feel of that silk flowing under my hands.
