How many Dopers out there are not particularly thrilled by frills, garters, etc? I’ve always found a T-shirt and shorts or a bathing suit to be far more sexy than a teddy or those elaborate rigs with fishnet stockings, suspenders and clips. Any other Dopers concur?
T-shirt and shorts…mans shirt…they’re cool…lingerie is too fiddly and in your face (If you get lucky)
Is it me or is there a huge lag here today?
I’ve always wanted to get some lingerie, but my boyfriend’s really not into it. He just likes when I have nothing on more than anything - he’s a skin guy. Just give him my bare back and he’s a happy camper.
One of these days I’ll cave in and get a babydoll, but for now I’m too poor.
I concur. Simple underwear turns me on more than anything else. (a woman has to be wearing it of course)
The stuff that looks like it’s been made out of net-curtains is the worst. does anyone find that sexy?!
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I will also vote for the simple underwear. My wife looks cute and comfortable in her cotton underwear with little bears (or whatever other image) on it, but decidedly uncomfortable in lacy things. Why would I want her to be uncomfortable? How would her discomfort turn me on?
Lingerie is lame and boring. It’s going to be removed anyway so what’s the point? Get to the goods.
Plus if someone’s just wearing regular clothes or regular underwear that’s somewhat revealing that’s sexier because there’s no expectation of sex or titillation while, in my opinion, lingerie means “I want to have sex but first I shall attempt to visually stimulate you” which is kind of anti-climactic.
Have you seen some lingerie? It’s so byzantine in its construction and presentation that I’m sure someone could strangle themselves or pull a muscle by the time every snap, strap, buckle and garment is loosened. Christ, someone could lose their boner wrestling with the latest item from Victoria’s Secret.
I thoroughly appreciate lingerie.
It’s like the framing to gorgeous artwork! Seasoning in a gourmet meal…
It should enhance, add to the enjoyment, increase the pleasure.
For me, it does!
Enjoy,
Randy
PS: Removing lingerie is optional, and for me, usually not preferred! As for anything that slows and lengthens the enjoyment/pleasure–I’m all for it!
I like lingerie just as much as I like wrapping paper. It’s what’s inside it that I want.
Natalie Portman (GQ front cover) proves that all they need to wear is a silk nightgown.
Ohhhh boy!
(mind you - Natalie Portman would look god-damn fine in anything! - bin bag, potato sack, custard, anything!)
Y’know, I never thought much of lingerie until my girlfriend surprised me once by wearing a hot little number. I was converted in about a 1/8th of a second. Hot-cha. Of course, it had more to do with the person inside said lingerie, than the clothing item itself. What I particularly like about it is the message it sends, when worn on special occasions. Let’s you know exactly what’s on the schedule for a good while. Plus it’s fun to take off, or leave on! It’s so versatile. Not to mention the exquisite feeling of satin slipping over smooth skin. When things get nice and serious, though, the more direct skin to skin contact, the better, in my opinion.
So count me with the lingerie fans. It’s by no means necessary, but it’s very nice on special occasions, most particularly when it’s least expected.
I like lingerie on my wife. A well-designed piece of lingerie highlights and complements the female figure in a very nice way. Of course in the end it comes off - usually rather quickly - but it’s certainly fun to look at.
I like it. Part of the endless variety that keeps things interesting. It’s more fun to take off her, too. And it has the added benefit of helping some women to get more in the mood.
I like lingerie. It makes me feel pretty.
Oh… you mean on girls.
Man, you’re crazy. I love lingerie.
I love lingerie. However I will say I also love what my GF wears to bed which is shorts and a tight fitting little half shirt with spagetti straps up top. I’m not sure what these shirts are called but I absolutely love them!
It’s called a camisole, and it’s a type of lingerie.
The clothes are not what I like. It’s the fact that the clothes are obviously chosen to attract my interest. (In the case where I am actually the one for whom this lingerie is being worn.) That is very exciting. The desire to look attractive is hot.
If it is just worn to show everyone in the world, it looks a bit silly, to me. And it looses its former appeal, as well.
Tris
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Flannel is the way to go.
Really.