I spent a large part of December 2004 being sad and upset. I was going through another “phase”, and everything: work, school, friends, family, and life in general, was pissing me off. I was pretty angry that I had yet another sucky birthday. But then, for I spent new year’s eve with some people I met at a concert two months before, and that’s when I realised, if I was so miserable, it was up to me to change that. Sitting in my room crying wasn’t going to change anything! So I made a new year’s resolution to put a smile on my face and meet some new people, and get out there!!
The problem was, I’m usually really quiet unless I’m around friends I know well, or have some opinion I must absolutely express, so how the hell was I going to meet new people??!
Enter the glorious, glorious internet!
I made a post on my local livejournal community, for new friends, and I added about 15 new friends from my area.
From those people, there was this guy who commented quite a bit on my entries. After commenting on each other’s entries back and forth for a little bit, we moved to chatting on AIM. You guys know, how sometimes when people who come across each other on the internet have awkward moments of not knowing what to say because they don’t really know each other and put some restrains on their words because they’d rather not take the chance to offend the other? Well, that didn’t happen, we chatted like we’d been friends forever.
After a little bit of chatting online, exchanging phone numbers, and text messaging each other, we planned to meet up, and I was a little worried that we’d talked about everything possible online, and would have nothing to say in person. Fortunately, that didn’t happen because we went out twice afterwards.
There must have been something about me on our last time out that entranced him because now he’s practically begging to see me again. cackles
Oh the internet is so wonder, but especially livejournal!