Southern Style raises some good points. If you think that your mom or girlfriend may need to use a gun, they would be far more comfortable with a smaller caliber. Likewise if you have small hands (no jokes please
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Aplogies in advance, but this is a long post…and I know of people who have gotten into various forms of trouble with guns in their home, so if it can be prevented for someone else, I’ll be happy.
I would recommend the 9mm for one simple reason: practice.
Practice, practice, practice. And when you’re done, you practice some more. You should make range time a somewhat regular thing. If you are going to own a gun, you must be absolutely sure of yourself and your weapon. I am by no means a gun person, but I have a 9mm Ruger and Mrs. Wolf has a .22 Magnum, for exactly the same reasons as you describe: home protection. Since I now live in Alabama, I can legally carry, but I really don’t feel the need to. I survived NYC for 30 years just fine without a gun. But since I am now a home owner, I’ll be damned if some mutt is going to break in and rob my ass, so I understand your viewpoint.
Getting back to practice, you really owe it to yourself and anyone who may be around to become the most proficient shot possible, and quite frankly, you should shoot to kill. Two shots at the center of the chest should do it. Forget about a head shot - you might be able to plink a target at 25 yards, but try shooting something when you’re scared shitless, and it’s quite a different story. Believe me, if someone is in your house, I don’t care how rough and tough you might be, you’ll be scared, and your hands will be shaking.
The advantage of a 9mm is that practice ammo is usually cheaper. You can easily shoot $20 worth of practice rounds at a range (most ranges will carry reloads for practice). The higher the caliber, the more $$$. When your gun is home and at the ready, in a safe or whatever you choose, you make sure you keep a full clip of hollow points, and chamber a bullet. Hollow or split point ammo offers very good stopping power even at 9mm. Small neat hole going in, big gaping wound going out. They have more of a kick, so you should shoot them every so often at a range just to familarize yourself. For example, once you’re comfortable with your gun, pack a clip with 8 or 10 rounds, and alternate between practice rounds and hollow points (I kind of like Cor-Bons), and fire away - you’ll be able to gauge the difference. You don’t want to be surprised if you should ever need to fire your weapon at home.
Again, Southern Style is right - the chances are very slim of having to use a gun, but you should also do whatever you can as far as preventive measures. It may sound elementary, but many people overlook things like: locking your doors, using deadbolts that are keyed from the inside (and leave the key handy when you’re home, like on top of the door frame), adequate lighting outside your home, don’t let bushes grow so big in front of windows that someone could hide behind them, etc. etc. I would advise anyone to check with their local cops about crime prevention tips - they will be more than happy to teach you. Do whatever you can to prevent someone from breaking in to begin with. You really don’t want to have to kill someone.
If nothing else, it makes a big bloody mess on your carpet. However, you should realize that if you don’t kill your attacker, you are open to a lawsuit. Just think about the times we live in. If you can collect money for spilling hot coffee in your lap, you can collect money for getting shot while robbing someone (and people have). You’d better thoroughly check the laws in your state regarding this stuff. Normally, you cannot shoot someone outside of your house, even if they are on your property. You can’t shoot someone for stealing your car. You can’t shoot someone in the back if they are fleeing your house. Generally, you can only use deadly force if your life is in jeopardy. I am not a lawyer or a cop, so please check into these things.
Also keep in mind that most confrontations in the home occur within 7-10 feet. Think about it - you wake up to someone in your bedroom, or you hear a noise, go to the next room and someone is standing there. You don’t have to be a marksman from 50 yards. Remember too that it will likely be dark in your house. You won’t be able to see your gunsights, unless your gun is fitted with glowing sights. If you’ve ever shot a gun at night, you will know what a muzzle blast is - a blinding flash of light that will blind you and anyone else around. Firing a gun in a small space is deafening - at any indoor range, you are required to use hearing protection. I know of someone whose gun went off inside of a car - he is now deaf in one ear. In short, firing a gun inside of a house is no picnic.
Make sure you know how to break down your gun and put it back together quickly - it will help you to know your weapon. At the range, practice having the gun on the shooting table, picking it up quickly and firing. If your home is invaded, you will not be standing there in a shooter’s stance waiting. Make sure that anyone else who may pick up your gun knows this stuff as well. When I go to the range, I take Mrs. Wolf with me (she is a good shot, don’t piss her off :)) If I am in a struggle, I know she’s got my back. Make sure you know who’s in your house - too many people have been killed accidentally. If you get a gun, remind your friends to never come banging on your window at 2AM. Keep your gun clean, and NEVER keep practice ammo in a loaded clip when you may need to defend yourself. Nothing sucks worse than a gun jam. Read your manual front to back, and read it again!!!
To sum up, please be careful about using a gun, and don’t ever leave one around where kids can get to it. Sorry about the l-o-n-g post, but this ain’t play time, it could literally be a life and death issue.
Whew! That’s enough for me, I’m outta here…