wow, I’m surprised, i thought i was old fashioned and closed minded but i recently told my husband i will, he just has o find a woman we don’t know thats willing, not a friend, don’t want her around afterward! I guess it depends on your relationship and the fact i know he just wants to fulfill a lifelong fantasy
any other suggestions to keep it clean?
Everybody should get tested beforehand. Deeply unsexy, but that’d be my biggest stipulation.
I’d jump at at, but it is extremely unlikely. I’ve participated in 3-ways before and enjoyed it, but then I was the third. My experience might have been different if I was part of the couple. I have done a fantasy with my wife about a particularly sexy friend of our and she was into the fantasy, but at this stage of our lives, it is never going to happen in real life.
Re-read the OP. It’s your husband asking you to participate in a three-way with another man. Does he have a fantasy about that you’re willing to try?
Inspired by this thread, I just asked the wife for a threesome with a second hot lady. She said: “I told you to stop asking me this.”
But is that a “yes” or “no”? 
Dunno. I’ll go ask again!
I’ve heard the following conversation recalled by more than one Farung:
Fiancée: Sweetie, one of the fringe benefits of living in Thailand is that you can have a hot mia noi.
A few years later…
Husband: I’ve been thinking about that mia noi …
Wife: Let me tell you what we use for duck food in this country.
To it’s the Thai equivalent of “I just had the best blowjob of my life” “I just gave the last blowjob of my life”?
My wife and I have had threesomes before, all MFF and with the same girl.
My wife is bi and is turned on by her friend. She’s pretty good looking and I am turned on by her as well. The friend is bi as well.
My wife suggested the threesome to me and I jumped at it. I knew the friend had bi tendencies, but wasn’t gay. Therefore there was no worry that my wife would dump me for her friend.
My wife suggested another friend that I outright declined. This friend is a lesbian and would have no interest in doing anything with me. Even worse, I felt that she had plans to get my wife to leave me for her.
There has been talk about how you should finish with your partner in a threesome. My wife explicitly told me to always finish with her friend so that her friend would enjoy the experience more and want to do it again.
And doing it with a friend isn’t so weird. In our case, it actually helped the friendships. We’re all much closer now than we were before we started hooking up.
My wife and I have been married for over 12 years and we were together for almost 5 years before that. I am not, nor have I ever been concerned for our marriage. We’re in it for the long haul.
Theoretically I might be interested, but I’d be incredibly worried about who this imposter pretending to be my wife was. Her not being completely repulsed by the idea is inconceivable.