Men: For Real, or in his head?

In My Humble Opinion
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Testicles. Scrotum scrunching can feel very nice. Squeeze and mash upwards against the base of the penis, pull 'em forward, etc. Just as some women like rough action on the breasts and some like a lighter touch and some don’t want any attention there at all, I’m sure there’s a lot of variation amongst us guys w/regards to appreciating this kind of activity, but I’m definitely in the “mash 'em around a bit” category.

It’s obviously in the same general area, but can I help it if we’ve got lots of stuff concentrated in one place?

Kissing during sex is stimulating. Nibbling can be nice. Don’t care for sucking and licking so much. Attention to the boytits does nothing whatsoever for me. I’m just not a breast person in either direction.

What else? Belly-button, oddly enough. Not in isolation from other stimuli, but lots of nerves and old internal connective tissues so that inserting a finger and playing around can feel invasively naughty in a visceral way.

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dublos – :: blush :: awww, thank you. that’s so sweet.

can i use you as a reference, if i ever need to? :wink:
and AHunter3… um, yeah. already noted, for the most part. although the belly button is a novel thought.

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lachesis, I envy your husband.

The first time I read this thread, not long after you posted it, I was going to totally rail on you for wanting to try to “coach” your husband into making a change that can’t be made. But now I’ve realized that, instead of being closed-minded and trying to coach him into being exactly what you think he should be, you asked around and did some research. As has been said before, because of this you are truly a sex goddess. Please accept my apologies for the initial Pitting of you in my head. You are a wonderful woman.

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My groin is not my only erogenous zone, but it’s so far ahead of what is in second place that all the other areas are rendered nearly meaningless.

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Kissing, nibbling, tickling, etc., all add to the fun, but all sexual release and most sexual stimulation rests with Kid Bravo.

In my experience, anyway.

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Well, I’ve given this particular matter a lot of attention over the years. Suppose I should have had a partner for most of it, but oh well, ya make do with what ya got. q;}

IMnsHO, men and women are wired exactly the same way, except for a few circuits are reversed.

In this particular case, I believe I’ve isolated the reversal.

For a woman, the entire body is an erogenous zone. The clitoris, a single extremely sensitive point, is a particularly strong one, but only at the right time, and in the right circumstances, and with the proper partner. At other times, stimulation can range from ‘meh, that’s kinda nice’ to “Er, what are you doing” to “Ack, stop it, that’s not fun at all!”

For men, the penis is (usually) the only erogenous zone. A single, extremely sensitive point. It’s by far the strongest. Men are wired so it is ALWAYS the right time, and nearly always the right circumstances, and what do you mean by ‘proper’ partner? Is she breathing? Ok then!

Now this isn’t to say we don’t have others. We just shut them down, ignore them.

This is the reversal. Whether it is biological or cultural, I am not sure. Probably a combination.

In the exact right circumstances, with the exact right person, ANYTHING can be incredibly arousing to a male.

This is, incidentally, the reason we have tentacle porn and hentai and, er… other weird fetishes. But this is probably better suited to another thread.

To repat, a woman is all erogenous all the time, with a ‘point’ zone that generally needs just the right circumstances. A man is just the point, with all the others in the right circumstances.

On review, I also think I should add something about the fact that men are goal-oriented, while women tend to enjoy the experience for the experience.

In other words, for the most part, yup “Just Grab the Penis”. But try the rest once in a while too. :smiley:

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Interesting theory, but doesn’t this suggest that women never like tentacle porn and hentai and other weird fetishes? :wink: