MENTAL SEX -- is it possible?

If you have read Trevanian’s novel Shibumi, you remember the hero who was an Übermensch martial arts warrior. He had absolute self-discipline over body and mind, and had mastered the secret art of killing silently, swiftly, and efficiently with no weapons. OK, I know this is all just the ridiculous macho fantasy of a hack fiction writer. But it was the sex part I wanted to know more about.

He had a Japanese girlfriend who was also a master of the physical and mental martial arts. When they made love, they did not do it body-to-body. Oh no, that would have been just like the ordinary humans they despised. Instead, they sat wearing kimonos at opposite sides of the room, facing each other and meditating. They used their mental concentration to give orgasms to each other this way. They even held contests to see who could hold out longer from being orgasmed by the other.

OK, if you can stop laughing long enough to respond, I am seriously wondering if such a sexual technique has ever really been developed at the top levels of such disciplines.

Not at my dojo.

That I know of…

We’ve got a thing that’s called radar love…

It’s BS.

I have sex in my head all the time!

Maybe something like “Demolition Man” where Sandra Bullock’s character thinks that any physical “fluid exchange” is repulsive and old-fashioned? So they use some kind of headset/virtual reality/mindwave thing.

Will it ever come to this? Man, I hope not!

But since telepathy isn’t possible as far as I know, the situation in the OP is not possible.

That sort of thing wouldn’t be possible without some form of telepathy. I doubt you’ll find many believers around here.

However, it may be possible for some people to bring themselves to orgasm mentally (see Uncle Cecil’s column on the subject). If the Japanese girlfriend could do this, she might mistakenly come (heh heh) to believe that the cause was her macho b/f and not her own mental prowess.

Yes, but do other people get to participate?

You just reminded me of an exchange in some show I saw once…

Nerdy guy: How about a kiss?
Beautiful woman: In your dreams.
NG: Oh, in my dreams, we’re way past kissing.

ski, I know, I always thought that scene in Demolition Man was inspired by Shibumi sex, but they had to make it less spiritual and more technological.

Not in the same room, but a former lover and I used to play this game via phone. If you’re one of those people who’s able to orgasm without any physical stimulation, I don’t see why it wouldn’t also work in the situation outlined in the OP.

One slight issue I see with this is that a person has the capacity or power to block anyone from accessing their mind–esp. at that level of training.

Of course it is. And thanks.

Do you mean just by just thinking of something (whatever that happens to be for you) and keep thinking about it enough until you climax?

You mean there’s another kind?

Yes, as far as I know EVERYONE has this ability… no training needed.:eek:

The research was decidedly unscientific.

I was going to bring up Last Tango in Paris, but I already used it in the “Where do you keep your butter?” question :eek:

If anyone could do it, it would be Shinobi.

My brother once ran this through me. He said that the human nervous system must be about 4 volts & if you could connect with everyone else in that mental way, you would be taking in billions of volts. How long could the human nervous system take that?

looks around sheepishly I can. And while I couldn’t, like, mentally e-mail somebody sitting across the room from me an orgasm, if the other person could make it mentally, too, the over-all effect would be sort of what the OP was saying.

Guess that would depend on whether you connect with everyone “in series” or “in parallel”.

:smiley: