Mild Pitting of Beck

If you read that clear and very understandable explanation and apology, and your reaction is mock and make fun? Yeah, you’re just being a dick for your own amusement.

I get people lashing out at others to vent. I get people defending themselves by various means. But glee in being able to hurt someone? Fuck off. You’re not worthy of anything clever or entertaining.

@Stratocaster the interpretation is not very difficult. Beck is extremely thin skinned and really should mute the Pit completely. She is exceptionally poor at hearing criticisms.

AND the broad agreement is that she has still heard them over time and improved as a poster. Many participants here enjoy her contributions she has learned where they belong and where they do not, mostly.

The Pit is a place where you are free to be an ass. Congratulations on exercising that freedom to its full extent! Happy 250th!

Hardly any apology there especially combined with these 3 massive whoppers:

Does any of that seem in any way accurate to anybody?

Yes, @Stratocaster .

If I leave, and no it’s not a plan, “I think I will miss you most of all”, (paraphrased Dorothy, Wizard of Oz).

Love ya sweetie, have the day you deserve.

Now that’s downright nasty.

Psst–you’ve already used your “mean thing for the month.” You used it on July 1.

Bite me. Now that’s clever.

Seriously?

It is probably time to lock this thread and start a new one with the title “Catsup Pitting of Beck”.

It’s ketchup, no one says catsup, Heinz says so.

Just not on a Goddamn Fuckin’ Hotdog!

Gratuitous Pit Language added

The Irony here is “that other guy” claims to hate me and ignores me.

It’s because she likes me best! :grin:

I defend her because we are very good friends, and I know her very well. She really is a Sweetheart. It’s what you do when you love somebody.

You know, this board has really patted itself on the back recently for its banning of Transphobia, Gay Bashing, Random Misogynistic posts (childish boob and pussy jokes).

Maybe our next focus should be on just common decency to other members of our “community”. Give people a fucking break now and and then.

Another 4th of July Well Spent

Jeepers, I picked the wrong time to go on holiday - things got cray-cray, from what I can see here and the companion ATMB thread.

While I have the thread subject on ignore and that isn’t going to change, the people complaining about her strategy in this thread, in ATMB and here, are hardly covering themselves in glory.

The other irony here is that – I’d allow, unwittingly – you just admitted to a double-standard, one which – IMHO – is at the root of the “soft bigotry of low expectations” at play in this dynamic.

Which – as I would argue, and have argued – I believe to be a poor and deleterious standard to maintain on the SDMB.

I find your characterizations offensive and patronizing. Who are you to demand members meet your standards of engagement. I remind you this a message board not an entrance exam for the disadvantaged.

There hasn’t yet been a device invented that can measure my indifference to that remark.

All of your remarks, actually.

I rarely reach for the insults, even in the Pit, but I’d like to associate myself with the insults that others have hurled at you.

And I think their experience with you is far more extensive than my own.

You’re acquitting yourself very poorly here.

Look David, you’ve trotted out that crusty old quote attributed to Bush at least 3 times in this thread, written by a ‘frickin’ speech writer’ .(Republican writer​:face_with_monocle:)

Yep. Gonna have that tattooed on my ass. Soon.

I get it. But I think it might not mean what you believe it means.

Move on to a new “Quotations worthy of repeating” web site please.

Does anyone ever “cover themselves in glory” on this message board, according to your exacting standards? My impression of you is that pretty much everyone pisses you off. I am curious to know who, if anyone, you generally admire.

If and when the underlying dynamic changes, there’s a pretty good chance I’ll stop using the phrase.

Meanwhile …

Please be sure the ink used is NON-TOXIC.

I can think of at least three Dopers whose lives might be saved by that simple gesture.