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“It’s completely unfair that people of group X can use word Y to refer to people of group X without giving offense, but if I used word Y they would be offended!”
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AMEN!
Not that I think, for example, that Blacks should casually and outside of very narrow contexts use “nigger” (or its various bullshit permutations) in public or in mixed company, but yeah, I totally agree with you.
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“I’m not homophobic, because I’m not scared of gays, I just hate them.”
“I’m not anti-Semitic, because I don’t hate all Semites, just Jews.”
“It takes more faith to be an atheist than it does to be a theist. That’s why I’m an agnostic, the only logical position!”
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The gay thing reminds me of a routine that Bobcat Goldthwait (IIRC) did about homophobia. Afraid to face who I really am, and all that.
Although I tend to use the term “anti-Jewish” (based on the same reasoning–some of which I realize is just run-of-the-mill smart-assery–that the bigots employ, i.e., not all Semites are Jews) I understand that when other people use “anti-Semitic,” they generally mean “anti-Jewish.”
I forget where I read this (many years ago), but someone once likened agnosticism to an insurance policy. Although I, myself, don’t “know” if there’s a (using the term broadly) “god” or not (nor, frankly, do I care, i.e., I can live an ethical life on my own just fine, thank you very much), I truly don’t believe that there is, hence, my atheism.