I’ve ranted about mother-in-law in a handful of separate threads… I’m designated a whole thread as the mother-in-law rant thread.
I’m fretting about Christmas day. I’m getting to the point where I just about can’t stand to be around my mother-in-law. Whenever I’m forced to spend time with her, I end up very unhappy and bitchy–to her face, even. I just can’t hide it anymore. She’s a miserable person and she makes me miserable, too.
She’s already fucking up Christmas. My husband’s cousin is having a party Christmas Eve for their whole side of the family. I’m hosting Christmas dinner the next day for my side of the family. In a brief moment of weakness, I felt bad for mother-in-law because she lives in a woman’s shelter now and doesn’t have any immediate family (no spouse, no other children) to spend Christmas Day with, so I invited her over for Christmas dinner, too. This was what we did last year, and I figured it’s going to be a tradition.
Then we get a phone call from Grandma wanting to know when Christmas dinner is, what she should bring, yadda yadda yadda. Huh?? “Jeanie said Christmas Dinner is at your house this year.” Double huh??? Turns out she invited her whole famn damily.
Joel called his mom and told her she shouldn’t have, it’s just a small gathering for my family and her if she doesn’t have any place else to go. So not only did she make Joel call everyone and uninvite them himself, now she’s thinking she’d rather spend Christmas with her sister. Go, I say. Good riddance to bad rubbish. So this means she’ll probably screw around until the last second and show up unannounced halfway through Christmas dinner or something. Gah!
Please move back to Alaska. I got along with her so much better when she lived umpteen thousand miles away. She said she was only going to stay in Oregon a couple months; that was a year and a half ago. Please go away.
Go on, if you want to pitch a bitch about your own in-laws, feel free. I know I haven’t got it as bad as some. Make me feel better with your own tales of misery
“I hope life isn’t a big joke, because I don’t get it,” Jack Handy