My Dad is (effectively) dead

Damn, Capt :frowning: I’m really sorry you’re going through this :frowning:

Really sorry to hear this. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Si

I offer my condolences and will keep you in my thoughts. I second that you should make sure to eat and sleep as regularly as possible. It’s important to take care of yourself during times like this.

I’m sorry to hear this, Captain. I’ll nth the recommendations on making sure you get real food and real sleep, and trying to make sure your mom does the same.

Very sorry to hear that this happened to your family. When my mother died, she went from doing fine to critically ill overnight, so I know how shocking and traumatic it can be to see a loved one in the ICU under these kinds of circumstances. I also know from that experience how heartbreaking it is to be in the position of having to make the decision that it’s time to stop life support for a loved one. It sounds like they did everything they could have for him. Peace to you and your family.

I wish you the very best in getting through this.

I’m so very sorry.

So very sorry to hear what you’re going through. Thinking of you and your family.

So sorry, and echoing Olives, try to take care of yourself.

I’m so sorry. Wishing your family all the best in this hard time.

so sorry to hear this news. I wish your family all the best, and the best resolution to this situation.

Sending good thoughts your way. Take care of yourself.

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I’m so sorry to hear this sad news. I hope you and your mom will be alright.

Your father might still be able to hear and understand from time to time. If you speak soothingly to him that might help him with the transistion. Maybe even explain to him what’s going on. It could help all of you to understand, maybe, and do this one last thing together.

(I hope I don’t sound morbid. I was in a coma once and would have appreciated this.)

I’m so sorry to hear that. I can strongly sympathize right now and my heart goes out to you and your family.

That’s so terrible and I’m sorry you’re going through this. My dad, age 77, is about to undergo major surgery this week, so my heart really aches for you as I’m scared shitless. I can’t imagine being without your dad. :frowning: I’m not very good with prayers, but I definitely offer some to you and his loved ones. Take care of yourself and remember, we’re all here when you need us.

{{{HUGS}}}

I’m so sorry to hear this, Capt. I’ve posted a good bit about my Dad’s condition, and while he hasn’t taken the turn for the worse like this, I really feel like it’s coming…sooner or later.

Even with that, I’m not ready for it. I can’t imagine what you’re going through.

-D/a

It must be a shock to have this happen out of the blue. My parents are in their mid-60s and I know I wouldn’t be prepared for something like this. You and your family are in my thoughts.

Dear familiar old friend, I’m so sorry that you are hurting. You are in such a painful and miserable situation. I wish that we could offer lasting comfort.

I’ll bet he was always proud of your intelligence.

I am so sorry this happened. My thoughts are with you and your mother.

I am so sorry and wish you and your family all the best.