My Daughter Won a Pony!

The fair has been in town here for the last two weeks, and last weekend I took my kids. They had a petting zoo and a pony ride, and a contest. If you ride the pony, you can fill out a ticket to win either a pony, or $300. I filled out a ticket for each of the kids, and we left. My daughter really latched on to the idea though (she’s four), and she’s been talking all week about the pony. She’s been absolutely certain she was going to win, and she asks every day, “When can we go get my pony? Can I ride it home from the fair?” I sat down with her a couple times and told her that she probably wasn’t going to win the pony, but she was very insistent that she would be the winner.

Well, she was right and I was wrong. Yesterday, the phone rang. When I answered, a woman asked for my daughter. I said I was her mother, and she said, “Your daughter won the pony at the fair. Do you want the pony, or the money?” My daughter was at her dad’s, so I said, “I don’t know. I’ll have to talk to her about it.” She said they would deliver it somewhere for us, but they had to deliver it today, and to come up to the fair to claim it.

I called her dad, and we all decided to go together. When he told her, she said, “They called? Finally! Let’s go get my pony!” She wasn’t even surprised! We got directions to go in the back way, and after we parked they said they wanted to take her picture with the pony. This whole time we were calling around, trying to figure out what we were going to do. I finally got in touch with a stable that answered the phone. I explained what had happened, and the woman was very helpful. She asked if the pony was saddle trained, and I said I didn’t know. She said, “If it isn’t saddle trained, take the money and run.” When I asked how much it was to keep the pony there, she said it would probably be about $250 a month. Whoa. This was pretty far out of my budget. I told my ex-husband about it, and we both started to panic.

Then they brought out the pony. He was brown with white spots, and only seven months old. He wasn’t saddle trained, and he was skittish around the kids for the picture. The man handling him said we could probably begin to saddle train him (how??) in about a year and a half or so. Okay. So, I took my daughter aside and explained to her that we couldn’t take the pony. She started to cry, but I explained to her that she had just won a lot of money, and I would take her shopping and she could buy a whole My Little Pony playset.

Her dad came over, and handed her the money. She started fanning herself with it and said, “You know, I’m fine just the way I am. I don’t need a pony, no. Let’s go shopping!”

We went to Target and she went nuts. She bought her brother the big castle set he’s been lusting after for months, along with a couple movies and candy. She went down the girl toy isle, grabbing all sorts of things and dumping them in the basket. I went behind her and put some things back, but mostly I let her have whatever she wanted. She paid the cashier herself, too.

Overall, it was a completely crazy day. I’m glad we have pictures of her with the pony, but I’m very glad we decided not to take it. What a huge responsibility! My daughter seems really happy too, and she still has almost $100 left. What a lucky girl! :smiley:

Not to rain on your parade, but remember that Uncle Sam will be notified of the winnings & you will get a tax bill. Just be prepared before the last $100 is spent.

I am really happy for you, and especially happy for your daughter!

What a great memory she has.

“A pony? Oh, yeah, I won a pony, when I was little. It was cute, but it was too young to ride, so I couldn’t keep it.”

Tris

That’s such a cool story!

If she mentions any lottery numbers, you’ll post them here, won’t you…? :wink:

Tax wise, if it is her major source of income, even if it is reported, which is not required for so small a prize, she will not be above the amount which requires her to pay taxes for the year.

Tris

A huge thank you from all horse lovers for not taking the pony. That would not have been pretty.

You should have given it away.

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That’s what her dad said too! He told her, “We’re going to the gas station; I’ll buy the tickets because you’re too young, but you pick the numbers, okay?” (He was joking, obviously)

Well, we wouldn’t have taken it if we thought we couldn’t care for it properly. It was rather shocking though. I mean, doesn’t every parent want to give their little girl a pony? So, my first impulse was, of course we’ll take the pony! Yay! Free pony!

Oh, another happy bit. I called the woman who boards horses, and told her what we decided. She said we absolutely made the right decision, but thought it was a shame that Emily (my daughter) didn’t get a pony, so she invited her and my son up next weekend to feed and ride one of her ponies. So everything has worked out wonderfully. :slight_smile:

Seems like a fairly silly raffle prize. I’m glad Miss Elizabeth’s daughter took the “trade for toys” in stride, but it does seem like a setup for a nightmare situation. Someone who knows little about horses getting an unsaddle-trained pony for a four year old? And having stable fees? I can’t imagine the thought process behind “this will be a good idea!”

You daughter is all girl. :smiley:

Nope, sorry free pony is in the same category as a free boat, and unicorns. This category is called thngs which do not exist.

Congratulations on the little one’s win! And I, too, think you made the right decision. A co-worker has horses, and hearing her talk about a) the amount of time every single day they take for care, and b) the vet bills… The win, though, and the toy splurge, will probably be a life-long joyous memory for your daughter. And her brother, with his new castle!

My daughter mentioned that she wanted a pony when she was three just like most little girls do. This was in earshot of her nanna who made a mental note. The next day, nanna went out and bought my daughter a pony. However, it wasn’t really bad. My in-laws have a farm with horse facilities and the staff to take care of them. The pony Chrissie was at the farm for less than a year before she was found dead in her stall. She was much older than she was represented to be during the sale (probably in her 30’s). Mu MIL couldn’t bare the thought of my daughter having that type of pain so she went out and bout another pony before we told my daughter the news. It worked out fine in this case but that is just because someone else is taking care of it and paying for it. Horses are expensive and a lot of work.

But, but…
How is she going to win the Grand Nationals?

Oh, man - what I wouldn’t’ve given for such a win when I was a kid. Now I just go out and buy ponies at auctions (See pic below). You made a sensibile decision, and it isn’t too early for your daughter to start riding lessons, for when she finally does gets her pony.

Peanut

StG

My 4-yo would have been just the same about winning a pony. She’s always asking to get a horse, since he could live in the backyard. How fun for you all, and thank goodness she took the cash without a huge fit!

[seinfeld]When I was a little girl in Poland, we all had ponies. My sister had pony, my cousin had pony, …So, what’s wrong with that? [/seinfeld]

Sorry, Tris - not likely so. Unless her parents are going to give up claiming her as a dependent, this income is considered to be her parents’ income. So, planning is in order.

How in the world will “Uncle Sam” be notified? They didn’t even get our last name, and it was a cash prize.

Quit being a downer. If by some turn of events, we end up paying taxes on it, that’s fine, but honestly I don’t see that happening. It’s $300, not $3,000.

They probably didn’t bother - they aren’t required to for such a small amount. I wouldn’t worry about it. I think its a $600 threshhold for requiring a 1099.

I am so glad this story had a happy ending! First of all, I don’t think much of an outfit that would just “give away” an animal with the requirements of a pony without so much as finding out if they had a place to keep it. You may have dodged a bullet.

You have obviously done a good job raising your daughter. I am afraid most of the kids I know (probably me included way back when) would have gone into total meltdown if they (I) had won a pony and wasn’t going to be allowed to keep it.

Hurray for toys! And your daughter buying something for her brother shows real class.