If you squeeze are orange, it’s a sure thing you will get orange juice. But if you squeeze a person, no telling what you will get.
However, you will get what is inside them. If they are full of fear, that fear will surface, if they are full of love, then that is what will surface.
His4Ever told us about why she chose the path she’s on. Her grandmother talked to her about it and she was having dreams about whether she was really saved or not. She chose the path from fear of not being saved, as do most that follow that teaching.
I am not unfamilar with what she is saying. I was raised in a fundamental church. Everything went ok until I was about seven years old. That’s when you had to go to “big church.” There’s where the hellfire and damnation was preached. I had nightmares about being “saved” and would often wake up screaming in the night. I rededicated myself at every service because I didn’t feel saved. The pastor finally allowed me not to go to “big Church.”
I never really believed, because of all the contradictions in what they preached, and as soon as I could, I left that kind of church forever. I went to a Unitarian Church that had a large library on religion, bible history, comparative religion, and such. It was great, after three or four years of steady reading I began to understand the nature of theology well enough to lose a lot of the fear.
During my NDE, I lost all fear of death, that is one of the characteristics of near death experiences.
As I grew older, I found I was not the only one scared by religion. There are support groups, counselors and psychiatrists who work with those who crashed and burned on fundamental religion.
Jesus said: “By their fruits ye shall know them.”
I will always teach God is unconditional love, because that is true.
Yes, his4ever, I experienced it, first hand, eye-witness. But I also know that it is logical, real, and honest.
My suggestion is: if you are going to church because you feel you have to, because you feel you need to, or because you fear God and death. Please consider doing some serious reading into Bible history, church history and comparative religions.
You should be going to church because it helps you grow spiritually, you enjoy it, it gives you an opportunity to serve others.
Love
Leroy
I am not now associated with any religious organization.