I can’t figure out if saying it out loud makes it seem more real or less. Typing it makes it real. It’s real, I guess.
I’m so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
My condolences. That’s very rough. I remember how hard it was for my Father when my Mother died.
Oh my gosh. I am so sorry.
Sorry for your loss.
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Oh my god, Julie, I am so, so sorry.
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Everything I write here seems insufficient.
I am so, so very sorry to hear that. My thoughts are with you.
Holy cow! I knew he was sick, but I had no idea it was that bad. My sincere condolences.
So very sorry 
I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. Like Chimera, I can’t seem to type anything of worth right now. My dad died unexpectedly when my mother was in her early 40s, and it was awful for her and our family. I hope you have people close to you in your life - physically close - who can help you with both immediate and slightly more distant future concerns. When Dad died I ended up being The Strong One for us, through the arrangements and such, but Mom had help from his and her families as well, after I had to go back to college. Please, try to take care of yourself or let others you trust do so.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Scott
I’m so sorry.
It always seems to be the good posters who suffer so much personal tragedy, doesn’t it?
I’m so sorry for your loss, jsgoddess.
I am so sorry, jsgoddess. I’ll keep you in my thoughts.
My condolences.
jsgoddess, I never have the words I want for these situations but I am so sorry for you. Be strong and take help from those willing to give it. Take comfort where you can.
I’m very, very sorry to hear of your loss.
Oh man. I’m so sorry.