Neither mundane or pointless but yesterday was the worst thing that has ever happened to me. Woke up about 2 am to find my husband on the couch. I thought he was just asleep but I realized he wasn’t breathing. Called 911 but he must’ve already been dead when I found him. What am I going to do?! He took such good care of me. He made my meals helped me find things he spoiled me rotten. I miss his love so much already and it’s only been a day. I just can’t face a life without him. So broken right now. Thanks for listening
This is horrible. I am so incredibly sorry for your tragic loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss. The advice that helped me the most was take it one breath and one step at a time. Be patient with yourself. It may not seem like it now, but it will eventually become bearable.
I’m so sorry. That’s terrible.
I am so sorry.
I’m so sorry for your loss.
Is there someone with you right now, like a friend or family member? If not, can you call someone to come stay with you temporarily? I hope you can.
So sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry, janis. Can’t imagine how this must feel.
Seconding what Rilchiam said. If you don’t have a friend or family member with you, please call someone to be with you. This is not something you should try to go through alone.
Oh no! What you’re going through is one of my worst nightmares. I do hope you have some real-life folks to lean on (you have us, of course).
I’m so sorry, janis.
So very sorry! Hope you have someone nearby to help you thru this. 
Oh how awful for you! I am so very sorry.
My condolences. This must be devastating.
My sincere condolences.
So very sorry for your incredible loss.
Oh, god. Girl. I’m so sad for you.
May you find some peace.
How awful. So very sorry.
My condolences.
I cannot even imagine the emptiness, the cold that fills your house and your heart now. Gather your people around you, and just BE.
Every single Doper cares.
~VOW