I am so annoyed. He is about dead on his feet, and cannot/will not just come home and get some sleep. I have only seen him for a few moments in the mornings all week. I think he’ll take some time off when he has a heart attack and takes a “vacation” in the hospital. Of course, his company is no use - they are happy to run him right into the ground. I won’t tell you their name, but their initials are IBM.
How the hell do I get him to stop, short of kidnapping?
I used to have to bring his dinner to the office if I wanted to eat with him! Frequently he would work until 1am, then go back at 7 the next day. (He really was working- I checked!)
Then he got hit by a truck last year on his motorcycle. I can count his late nights since then on one hand. He decided that he enjoyed spending time at home- watching tv, playing games, whatever a lot better then working. (Even if it meant less money). Life is good now!
I hope that’s not what it takes for your husband. It’s damned scary.
Zette
PS- prior to the accident, NO AMOUNT of nagging worked. He just said “you knew this when you married me”. End of story.