Im the middle child in my family out of three. Okay I admit that we aren’t the best or near perfect family. We’d have our occasional disagreements and arguements but somehow it stills works out fine.
IGNORANT
My older sister is an average female who has completed a university degree and recently got married. Other than that she is a massive bitch, she is blinded under her own ignorance and self centered behaviour. She acts like she knows best as if she had never thinks of what she says twice. This is known as immaturity- if she was at an adolescent age its understandable, however she’s already in her mid 20’s. She is extremely lazy and will always make excuses to get out of doing work/chores/helping others/favours etc. She is weak and cracks at the slightest sign of pressure/stress. She will always complain about how hard it is to run errands, cook, work, babysit, housework, paperwork …bla bla! But seriously, it’s not so fucking hard to do all those things. She barely does all of those things because its all mostly done by mum.
The only time she is willing to do something is only when she has a motive. She gains happiness from other people’s misery. Constantly putting people down and finding a chance to ruin them, especially me.
She has been trying to ruin me as long as I can remember. I cannot recall not even once she has ever supported or even comforted me at my time of need. She has never once let me enjoy my moment of happiness. Recently I had dated a girl, which i kinda liked alot. Because my sister could not stand seeing me happy, she’d tell everyone how bad of a person my girlfriend was when she haven’t even met her yet, making everyone judge me wrongly. What i thought was outrageous was when she directly confronted my girlfriend asking her ‘why would you like such a person like him?’ which put my girlfriend and I in a very awkward position. She’d even try to annoy me in front of my girlfriend in hope that i will mentally snap. How immature.
UNGRATEFUL
Unlike her I am more controlled and morally trained. Throughout all these years of living under the same roof, I’ve coped with her shit. She is rude and ignorant towards the people around her - parents,elders,close friends, colleagues, family, employors, and even total strangers. She’s the type who will slap you in the face when one offers help purely out of goodwill.
Like i said before, my family isn’t perfect. Of course arguments will breakout between children and parents. I admit that I myself have had arguments with my parents, but deep down I know that parents will always want what’s best for their children. So I’ve learnt to appreciate the time i have with my parents. My sister has never been truly grateful or ever appreciated our family.
I’ve realized this recently when she got married - mummy and daddy had forked out a shit load of money and got her a house, a car as a wedding gift and even paid for the wedding reception. If it was me or any other person, I would have been eternally thankful to my parents for giving me such a costly wedding present. Ignorantly, she accepted the gift as if there was a gun pointed to her head. Until today she has achieved what everyone could have done at this point of age, yet she acts like she has conquered the world and everyone is in her debt. What pisses me off is that once she got married, she acts like she has been been detached from the family. Like a prisoner who has escaped from prison. Mum the other day asked her to help her out with some paper work because she wasn’t so sure how - she single mindedly refused to help out because she thought it wasn’t her problem anymore. I mean c’mon it’s just a fucking phone bill … it doesnt hurt to explain a few of the details to mum.
Throughout all these years of being mentally tortured of by this horrible person, I’ve kept quiet … watching her slowly ruin herself. Until today I have proven myself right. She is worst than the devil.
God chose our family for us, thank god I can choose my friends.