My landlord is a passive aggressive jerk PLUS boat pictures (long)

Not in the Pit because it’s just not angry enough.

I moved in over a year ago to an apartment atop my landlord’s garage. He and his family lived in the house in front, and we got along quite well. A few months ago, he bought another house and moved out, and a group of 20-somethings moved into the house. When he moved out, he mentioned that he’d like there to be parking in the back yard, to minimize impact on the neighborhood. I was fine with that, but as time went by, I started to wonder how it was he expect this to happen. The paved area of the backyard is wide enough that you could get two cars in abreast, but since there’s a narrow driveway leading to the backyard, there’s no way that two cars with a normal turning radius could actually get in the back yard. On top of that, he kept things in the garage, and one could never tell when he would want things, so the few times I did park in the driveway or backyard, he was annoyed because he couldn’t get into the garage. I rolled my eyes and went back to parking on the street, but it seemed like every time I talked to him about anything, he expressed the desire to have people park in the back yard.

On part of the pavement there was a little covered gazebo and some patio furniture, but a few weeks after he moved, he came and took the patio furniture. Later, he said that we should move the gazebo over onto the lawn to make more space to park in the back yard. I pointed out that no one parked in the back yard anyway, but this, as always, fell on deaf ears. And then my cousin told me that he couldn’t keep his boat any more (my aunt and uncle were moving), and asked if I wanted it. This is a small sailboat that’s been in our family for about 35 years. My Dad bought it when he was my age and I learned to sail on it. It’s a fun boat and has some good family history, so I wanted to have it. And what better place to have a sailboat than in Santa Barbara. I called my landlord to see if I could keep it in the backyard.

Landlord: “I want the backyard to have spaces for parking cars.”
Me: “But, nobody parks there anyway. And, besides, if you’re going to move the gazebo, it can go over on the edge of the pavement where you couldn’t park a car anyway.”

I explained where it would go, and he said ok. I also asked my neighbors in the front, and they said that they were fine with it. So after getting a car that could pull it, I brought the boat down and put it in the back yard. It needed some work. Luckily, I had some friends who were willing to help in exchange for promises of going sailing on it later, and we set to work stripping and sanding and painting it. Also around this time, I found a foosball table that nobody wanted and brought it home. My front neighbors were overjoyed. And then I got a call from my landlord.

Landlord: “So, I thought you were going to be storing a boat in the backyard, not restoring it.”
Me: “Yeah, it needed some paint. It’s only temporary, though. It should be done in a few weeks and then it’ll look nicer and be out of the way” (not that it was really in the way of anything as it was.)
Landlord: “Well, the backyard looks terrible. [Landlord’s wife] is just sick about it. The grass and palm trees are dying, the gazebo’s on the lawn, and someone left a foosball table back there.”
(First of all, the grass and the palm trees are his problem, and moving the gazebo was his idea)
Me: “Well, you suggested moving the gazebo to the lawn so there’d be space to park. And I brought the foosball table there. The folks up front like it.”.
Landlord: I don’t like it. It makes the backyard look like IV" (Isla Vista. Where all the UCSB students live)

A week later, when I’m working on my boat, he comes over and tells me I can’t keep it in the backyard, because he wants to set the backyard back up so that everyone can use it. He brings back the patio furniture, but only sets out two chairs, and puts the rest in the garage. He tells my front neighbors that he’ll bring the patio furniture back when the boat’s gone. Not that the patio furniture couldn’t be in the backyard at the same time, but now there’s something he can withhold to get the boat gone.

I try a couple more options, including finding that the boat could go on the other side of the garage, offering to keep up the yard and water the plants, and offering to pay extra. No deal. I move the boat. I move the foosball table. This was several weeks ago. Last Wednesday, I call and leave a message to ask if he could bring the furniture out in time for Sunday, when I’m having a barbecue. No answer. I call again on Friday and leave another message. No answer.

I get up on Saturday morning and notice that the two chairs that were there are now gone. I call him up again, and he says that [Landlord’s wife] decided that they were too nice to just leave out there. They’re not “renter quality.”

So, to recap, he wants us to park in the backyard, but not in the driveway, and not in front of the garage, and not where the gazebo is. He wants the backyard to look nice, but he doesn’t want to actually do any work for it or make a deal to have me keep it up. The foosball table is tacky, but his furniture is too nice to let renters use. RRRRrrrrggh.

And, for those who were interested from before, here are some Pelican pics.

Yeah, he’s a dick, but when you own the property, you make the rules (within the parameters of tenant law in your area). You don’t like it, give notice and move.

Oh, I’m looking for another place.

What bugs me the most is that he doesn’t seem to want to make any rules. He just wants to be able to hassle me about something.

Yeah, it does sound like that. Got a bit of a power trip going on, I’d say.

Actually, it sounds like he’s being nagged by his wife, and is reacting to everything she says instead of just laying out a plan and sticking to it. That’s what I read into all his actions.

It’s possible, but I never got that vibe from them when they were living up front. I think he’s just claiming her as his excuse because then there’s no leeway for any discussion or compromise. “Hey, sorry. It’s out of my hands.”

So, now that you have no patio furniture, are you putting the Boat and foosball table back?

He may be a dick, but if I were a landlord I wouldn’t want a tenant rehabbing a boat in the backyard of the leased premises. You sort of pushed the envelope with that one.

Re the foosball table in the yard that sounds junky as hell. If I were landlord I sure as hell would allow tenants to put damn foosball table in the yard. It really does sound like you’re trashing the place up a bit.

Could you explain why you would care about the foosball table? It’s not like anyone sees it but him and the people who live here.

Google tenant’s rights for California.
IANAL, but I had some trouble with a landlord in San Diego, so had the occasion to go over the landlord/tenant laws for California.
The space you rent is your home. Except in an emergency, the landlord may not enter your home without 24 hour notice, even then, you have the right to refuse him entry until it is convienent for you.
If the space you rent is a house, with a yard, the yard is part of the renter’s domain and the landlord may not trespass, without permission. The lanlord can have a written agreement that a part of the property is off limits to the renter’s. He can also say he will maintain the yard. If he doesn’t put the yard maintance agreement in writing, the renter is responsible for maintaining the yard in the same state it was when he rented.
He had the right to take his patio furniture, but he doesn’t have the right to tell the renters what they may and may not do in the yard, (Unless its in writing, signed by both parties. Restoring your boat should be outside his privilege as long as you clean up after yourself every day. The foosball table probably was an eye sore, and should have been taken inside.
My experience dates back a few years, so laws could have changed, so look them up yourself.
Its likely that he’s unfamilar with the law as well, if he’s only had the one apartment.
Since you aren’t in the main house, that controls the yard, the people in the main house need to address yard use and care.
I believe since he told you you could store the boat, he can’t make rules about what you can do to or with it.
It sounds like its time for all parties concerned to sit down together, and put together a written agreement, so everyone is on the same page.

Yeah, from what I’ve read I can’t tell if the OP actually has any legal control of the yard. If the OP signed a lease that basically gives them living rights to the apartment above the garage, then the yard probably isn’t included.

As far as the main house goes, it’s even possible that the land lord has it set up so the main house’s lease also does not include the yard. One place I lived there was sort of a “common” yard that was surrounded by several different rental units, none of which had actually rights to the yard, but the land lord basically knew it was going to be used for various things.

This did cause problems when people would throw destructive parties though, since no one actually had leased the property, the land lord had absolutely no ability to assess damages against any of the tenant’s deposits.

For this particular situation a foosball table is tacky and speaks of college parties with kegs laying all over the place. I wouldn’t want one sitting out if I was a land lord either. At the same time, though, a land lord doesn’t have control over a lot of what you do on the property you rent, unless the lease specifically states certain things.

Since this used to be be the landlord’s home, I think he’s having some “letting go” issues…or at least his wife is. Sounds like she still thinks of it as her home. Are you not allowed to use the garage at all for parking?

The garage is still full of my landlord’s stuff. He runs a small business and some of the garage is storage for that business.

My rental agreement is pretty informal, and does not include the yard. However, they’ve always said that I could use the backyard, that I could have parties, etc. The washer and dryer are in the back yard, too (next to the house), and I was able to use them (until they moved out and took them away). The other renters and I then went in on some used ones from craigslist. I don’t know what the house renters’ agreement says with respect to the yard.

I can see why he (and several of you) might not like the idea of the foosball table, but it’s not like he uses the backyard to entertain. It’s certainly not doing any damage to the property. I decided that it wasn’t worth fighting over, and got rid of it.

I have looked into tenant law in California and decided that it’s not worth pursuing because[ol]
[li]My rental agreement is just for the apartment. Any use of the yard, etc. has always been through mutual oral agreement.[/li][li]I’m looking for another place anyway, and he can always just tell me to leave if I start to lawyer up.[/li][li]I need his recommendation as a good renter to get another place a lot more than he needs mine for anything.[/li][/ol]

As a homeowner, I can give you some insight into why he might not care for the foosball table - the outward appearance of my house and yard are not only mandated by Calgary by-laws, but I have a lot of pride in their appearance, as well. Their appearance reflects on me as the homeowner, and even if I wasn’t living there but renting it out, I would still care about the appearance of my place, and a foosball table and boat getting re-done in the backyard wouldn’t fit my ideas of what my yard should look like, either.

Homeowners also have to think of their neighbours. If my neighbours get unhappy, they have legal ways of making me unhappy (back to those Calgary by-laws again).

I can agree with that, as a long term view, although I think I would be willing to allow a boat to be worked on in my yard (if I had one) provided it didn’t take more than a month or two.

But,considering the owners had put their washer and dryer in the back yard a foosball table doesn’t seem like much of a stretch.

And that right there is what makes most tenant/landlord laws mostly useless.

Yep. It also makes the application process a total bitch. If landlords knew that they could just kick someone out for nonpayment of rent and not have to go through a several month process of eviction, I wouldn’t need background checks and credit checks and personal references to rent a place. I could just show up looking reasonably clean and sober and hand them a check for rent/security and move in.

I don’t think he can tell you what to do with the backyard if it is not visible from the street. I’m not even sure he can tell you where to park as long as you are parking in legal spaces. It sounds to me like he is enjoying his little bit of control and doesn’t realize the house isn’t his home anymore, and won’t be as long as he is renting it out.

Renting is a business, and it comes with it’s own rules and laws. You can’t decide you want to make money by renting your house out, but also decide you don’t want to relinquish the ability to decide furniture arrangements in what are now some else’s private areas.

So a foosball table is tacky, but an outdoor washer and dryer ISN’T?

:rolleyes:

I’d assume the washer and dryer had to be at least somewhat enclosed. I wasn’t aware they made a washer/dryer that would do very well long-term in an outdoors environment.