I’m so sorry for your loss, nonacetone.
So sorry… but I’m glad you could be there. It counts.
nonacetone, you have my condolences. Please hang in there and we’ll be keeping you in our thoughts.
nonacetone–I lost my Mom 3 years ago, almost 4.
Someday, you’ll be able to smile, then, laugh.
And remember the lady without crying.
Please excuse the cliche, nonacetone, but that sounds like a textbook example of a “merciful release”. So glad it came peacefully at the finish, and a moment of unexpected beauty to mark it.
My condolences.
Thank you, Dopers. I really appreciate all the good wishes.
I’m doing ok right now. I don’t think it’s hit me quite yet, though. She’s not suffering, and that’s all that matters to me right now. It’s finally over for her. She’s at peace.
nonacetone I’m so sorry for your loss. Your mother, you and your entire family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I’m sorry to hear of your loss, but I’m glad your mom got her rainbow. Take care of yourself.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. I’m happy you and your daughter were able to be with her.
Condolences to you and your family, nonacetone.
All I can add is that, when the shock wears off and the grief takes hold, remember that she really is at peace now.
You have my condolences.
If it’s any comfort at all, please remember that the pain of her loss is a small price to pay for her freedom from the troubles of this world. Grief isn’t just about sadness, and the peace people talk about isn’t just for her. Wherever she’s gone to, you can be sure that they don’t worry about kidney dialysis there.
My prayers and sympathies to all yours and especially you. May your future be peace and fond memories.
Seconded.
I’m sorry for your loss, but at least you got to say goodbye to her and be with her. And she’s not hurting any more.
I’m so very sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry for your loss, nonacetone. It was good of you to voice your willingness to let her go. I believe that on some level, she heard and felt it. It is a wonderful gift to hand this to someone you love.
I had a slightly similar experience when my father passed away at the nursing home. He was very strong in his Catholic faith. We family member stood around the bed praying the rosary for him and with the end of the prayer, he stopped breathing. I never knew death could be so beautiful. It was peaceful and fitting.
I’m sorry for your loss, and I’ll keep you in my prayers.