I don’t know about the near death experience from a personal standpoint, but I experimented with OOBE and lucid dreaming.
I was listening to the radio while lying in bed and I heard an “expert” on OOBE instructing to imagine a “fork in the road” as you begin to drift off to sleep. I imagined that the fork on the right went to sleepy-land and the fork on the left went to an OOBE. As I was drifting off to sleep, I heard a VERY loud buzzing sound. I flicked the light on and swatted at the air, imagining a big juicy bumblebee flitting around my head. I looked for a large winged insect for about 5 minutes before I gave up and went back to bed. I turned the radio back on, and just as I did, this expert on OOBE said that an indication that you are about to leave your body is “a loud buzzing sound or vibration.” I thought to myself “WOW!” I was close!
I experienced the buzzing sound several nights after that, but never had the courage to remain in the semi-sleep state I was in, always jarring awake in fear.
A few weeks later when I heard this sound again as I was drifting off to sleep, I summoned my courage and instead of waking myself, I let the buzzing continue for what seemed like 30 seconds until it went away on its own. I sat up in my bed, and everything felt the same. I was still in my body. I flopped back and went back to sleep.
At some point, I opened my eyes and saw my bedroom in its familiar blue night hue with a little light filtering in from the street.
Suddenly, I was bumping into the walls of my bedroom. It didn’t hurt or anything, but it was as if I was moving all over the place, but with no control over the direction I was going. I kept asking myself “WTF!” The odd thing is that I wasn’t scared. It was more confusing than anything else.
“What a strange dream” I thought to myself the next morning.
Only later, after reading some books on the subject, did I realize that I had what could be decribed as a “novice” OOBE.
There are a few things that make me think I actually was out of body. The first is that if it was a dream, it was the first that I can remember in my life where I was dreaming that I was in my bedroom, and everything looked the same in my dream as in reality. Except that I had no control and was mashing my face into the walls, but without pain. Usually, when i dream I do something painful, I feel the pain, at least in the dream. This was not the case with this event.
Also, almost all the books I’ve read comment on these “directionless” events that "novices’ experience. The interesting part about that is the fact that I didn’t read about that until after I experienced it.
Since that time, I’ve come to think that perhaps I was experimenting with something I shouldn’t. Too many un-forseen possibilities.
I’m deep into learning about lucid dreaming now. It seems much safer to me. I’ve had very infrequent success realizing that I’m dreaming when I’m dreaming, but when I have had success, it has been quite an amazing thing.
I know this all might sound flaky. It’s my first post on the SDMB too! Talk about horrid first impressions! Oh well.