Oh how I hate this time of year. Especially since I was in almost the exact same situation last Valentine’s Day.
So I met this girl. We went to lunch last week, and then went out this weekend. Had a great time, we seemed to really get along well. I’m hoping this lasts for more than about 3 dates (my average). Well, then this whole Valentine’s Day crap comes up. If we had been going out for a month or so, it would be easy to come up with something to do for her (comparatively). But since we’ve only been out a couple of times, I’m not sure what to do. Chances are we won’t see each other on Friday due to work schedules, but Saturday is a definite possibility.
So, keeping in mind that I really like this girl so far and don’t want to screw things up by overdoing it, what do I do? I mean, I could do nothing, but then she might think I’m not really interested. Or maybe I’m just overanalyzing the whole thing. Argh!
Just something little to let her know I’m thinking of her? Or is that even too much since we’ve only gone out 1.5 times (lunch counting as a half)? Do girls really make as big of a deal about Valentine’s Day as I’m making it out to be?
(Other points in case they’re salient to the discussion - we are both in our late 20’s, we seem to so far have been really open and honest with each other, and yes, there has been a little bit of kissing involved but that has been it so far.)