I have the following sitting as a draft in my email box since I woke up this morning, seeing as the forums were offline for posting at that point:
Why I Won’t Be Using RealID
RealID is a new feature with some great functionality that almost no one is going to use, including me. This boils down to a fundamental aspect of WoW and other Blizzard games that the developers seem to have forgotten: they are not a social networking site. On Facebook, I have a reason to let people see my real name and let their friends see my real name. But even in my EMAIL, I can choose what name to display and whether or not I appear online (in GChat). Some of us play with at least one real-life friend. But those of us who’ve been playing the game for longer than five minutes have a vast array of ONLINE friends–people whose playstyles and in-game company we enjoy. However, that doesn’t mean we trust them like real-life friends (or that we trust our real-life friends to only friend people we also want to have access to us), or that we want them to know where we are every second of every day. The current implementation means that people have to choose between a complete–and potentially dangerous or at least frustrating–lack of privacy, and no cross-server or cross-game communication capabilities.
How to Fix It
1.) Allow me to create an alias. This could be my real name; it could be a nickname; it could be the name of my main character; it could be the name of a small Eastern European country. Preferably, it should be unique to me, so that friends can add each other without having to give away one-half of what should be the privileged information required to access their accounts.
2.) Allow me to designate an auto-availability for each character. For instance, if I have a Druid on an RP server that no one else knows about that I like to play by myself to unwind, I should be able to toggle a “hidden” setting that makes it never even show up on my list of characters–let alone display as online if I’m playing it.
3.) Allow me to set an availability every time I log in to my account or a toon–not just “online, away, or busy,” but also “hide”–so that I can appear to be offline if I want.
4.) Allow me to create subsets of my friends list, so that if I want to appear online for some people but not others, I can do so.
In summary: Treat RealID more like an IM program and less like a social networking site.