I am entirely too patient in random heroics. I worked a 13-hour shift Thursday, which ended at 8:00PM, and I only had a couple hours before I had to get myself to bed cuz I had to be up again at 6:00AM Friday. So I figured I had time to run Ahune and then a random heroic on my pally, and maybe time to squeeze in an Ahune run on my mage.
So my pally ran Ahune (and got the staff, which is of course useless to my pally), and then queued up for a random. Ended up in one of the Nerubian dungeons (can never remember which is which - this was the one with Herald Volazj for the last boss). And died five times, including four wipes.
Death #1: Healer bailed for no apparent reason right in the middle of the second trash pull of the instance. The hunter and I ran back and we queued for a new healer. For some reason the tank and the shadow priest took freakin’ forever to run back. New healer showed up, and we waited several minutes and the tank and spriest still hadn’t re-entered the instance. At this point I noticed that the tank and spriest were from the same server, and had remarkably similar names, and I started to suspect that somebody was multiboxing, but of course I didn’t have any actual proof of this and I don’t know how I would find out for sure. Worth noting that, at one point before they ran back the spriest went offline for a couple minutes, then came back on, and then she and the tank ran back. Anyway, the new healer got tired of waiting for these two to run back, made some comment to the effect of “Damned random dungeon thing putting me in a !@#$-up group” and quit. Tank and spriest finally came back, we got a new healer, and started again.
Death #2: We ran back to where we died the first time, tank pulled a group of trash, and then while we were fighting that group we suddenly got swarmed by the group of trash that had been clear on the other side of the room, and wiped again. Hunter immediately accepted the blame and apologized, saying his pet was set to Passive and he had no idea why it ran over to that other group.
Death #3 & #4: Both wipes on Jedoga Shadowseeker. Nobody but the spriest and I seemed to understand the need to take out that volunteer as quickly as possible. Healer was apparently very unfamiliar with the instance, because she was the last one to make it back after the first wipe, and got lost trying to catch up to the rest of us, made a wrong turn (I was watching her progress on the map) and ran into a group of trash that killed her again. Spriest ran back to rez her, but couldn’t find her, so just waited for her to run back and then led her back safely to the rest of the group. After the second wipe, healer was again the last one back in, and this time the hunter turned around and ran back to guide her … or so I thought. I was watching on the map again, and he ran right past her and kept going, and got himself killed by trash. The healer finally caught up to me where I was waiting, and I started running the rest of the way with her. Which led to …
Death #5: The healer and I got jumped by a pair of elites at the bottom of a set of stairs the group had already cleared and had run down three times already. No idea where they came from, but we died quickly. That was it for me, finally. The tank had been waiting near Jedoga this whole time, the spriest was about halfway between the tank and where the healer and I died, and the hunter was still running back from his last death. The group was entirely too spread out, and I made a comment about how everybody really needs to wait until everybody is back in the instance after a wipe, and move as a group. And then I quit. I just didn’t have the energy to keep trying, and in any case my repair bill was up to 50g.
I think my “too patient” problem boils down to being convinced that if I drop out of an obviously “bad” group early, in an easy instance, and queue for a new dungeon, I’m going to end up with H:HoR instead. And I just don’t want HoR when all I’m looking for is a quick run to get my Frosts, especially when it’s late and I’m tired. So I stick it out with the bad group, hoping against hope that maybe we’ll manage to blunder through to the end.