"Nice Guys" vs. Decent, Albeit Clueless, Men

[Velocity]

@Pantastic

I dispute completely the premise that being concerned for oneself and one’s own needs is in any way jerkish

OK, but let’s redirect, again: This behavior example, for instance, doesn’t match that definition:

@Your_Great_Darsh_Face

I have personally known: -

• a girl besotted with a guy whose idea of banter was to tell everyone within earshot that she was on her period while she was begging him to shut up about it