Shit. Sucked into another avatar debate. Goddamnit.
Which you can retain, by never having avatar display turned on. I don’t know why people don’t seem to get that you can turn avatars off, or that the board can be configured to have their display off by default with just one click of a checkbox.
Anyhow, there’s relatively few message boards out there that don’t allow avatars. Most are either corporate sites (however, even Apple’s support board has avatars enabled), and those that allow only anonymous posting, those running on very old or custom-made software (Matt’s WWWBoard, IdealBB, etc.). The only other outlier I’ve come across where there’s no avatars because of “board culture” is GameFAQs. Like the SDMB, it’s also retrograde and proud of it.
Reddit is probably the largest online community without avatars. It isn’t a message board in the same vein as the SDMB, though, and users can have “flair” (badges, custom titles, etc) in many subreddits. Being an extremely busy site with millions of users, it’s understandable why they don’t allow the same kind of avatars that most boards have.
I’m generally pro-avatar, but I can only think of one valid reason for avatars being disabled, even with users having the option to turn their display on and off - shared board experience. Everybody sees the same thing in the same way. It’s a very weak argument, though; different users choose to read different posts and subforums. The other reasons I’ve heard through the years – users will be forced to see avatars, users will be forced to have avatars, copyright, bandwidth, attracting teens or the wrong element, changing the tone of discussion, and so on – just don’t hold water.
Avatars are the SDMB equivalent of gay marriage. Those that don’t want them generally just don’t like them, think they’re just wrong, and they don’t want anyone else to have them, even though they won’t be affected by their presence. Given the userbase here, avatars are to the SDMB what gay marriage is to South Carolina. “It ain’t right. I ain’t even don’t want to think of no g’damn Adam or Steve, even if I can’t see them goin’ all at at.”