Its a known fact that a man needs a woman. In today’s society, getting a girl has become a major challenge for guys who don’t make a decent amount of money. Not all girls are chasing after rich guys with mansions Mercedes Benzes and Mazeraties, but a lot, or just about all girls are looking for a guy who can afford a decent car, a nice apartment, and extra spending money. U can say that aa successful man who is suitable 4 a girl is a guy who is making a decent amount of money but unfortunately, the unfair economy that we live in makes it hard for every guy 2 get a good job.
And as u might can tell, I am a guy with a not so good job. I work at a retail store and I only make around $800 a month. I know that just about every girl doesn’t want a guy like me. A lot of girls say that I look good but looks aren’t much of an advantage for men as it is for women. Men gotta have the money 2 go along with the looks. A couple of years ago I was getting dissed by females too much and after a while I decided its time 2 start getting escorts.
I look at it like whats wrong with escorts? Just about every woman judges a man by how much money he makes. Escorts just happen 2 be honest about it. Besides, I’m not about 2 live my life with no girl and no sex. I’m man enough 2 say that I should have finished college, but it was too hard 4 me.Just because I didn’t finish college doesn’t mean that I should be punished with no girl and sex. And no its not just sex I’m looking for its just that I’m spending over $100 at a time for escorts so I might as well have sex with them 2 get the most out of my money
I’m responsible with my spending habit on escorts. I spend anywhere from $300-$400 a month on escorts
I treat escorts with respect just like I would if I had a girlfriend. I don’t just view them as sex toys. Occasionaly, I pay them just 2 watch a movie or go out somewhere. My plan is 2 associate with escorts for the next 10 or 15 years or until I move up in a management position at my job and I’m able to afford a free girl. If possible, I’ll start a relationship with the main escort I go see now. She’s the only escort I’ve been seeing all year and I really would like 2 be in a relationship with her 1 day
I hope this gives u all a better idea of why some guys associate with escorts. There is nothihng evil about it and all of the girls are not hoes and bitches
Good on ya, I suppose. I’d rather just invest in a Fleshlight and an internet connection than pay someone to pretend to be interested in me as a person, but that’s a personal opinion. But if that’s where you want to spend your money, I certainly don’t see any problem with it. No more stupid than any other way of wasting your money.
I’d suggest counseling, but that’s my hammer in search of a nail.
I remember hearing a piece on NPR about how marriage rates were in decline because salaries have stagnated and/or decreased. It’s not about gold-digging, but not making money means men are less confident they can provide, and women are also skeptical. And that confidence affects more than just promising a good marriage, it means one is less sure about putting the first foot forward period. Even if we ignore the social stereotype and reverse the roles, the situation isn’t any better.
I know a young man who has a job at the corner grocer, a very low income, and no ambition. But he is kind and sweet and wonderfully nice and easy-going and he has the cutest girlfriend…they’ve been together seven years now.
I’d think that hiring prostitutes (since the OP is clearly talking about women who have sex for money) would be extremely expensive.
I also think that the OP is rather confused about the difference between needs and wants. As far as I know, nobody has ever died from not being able to have sex. Sex, for an individual, is a want, not a need. The SPECIES as a whole needs to have some of its members procreating…but not necessarily every member.
This isn’t the Pit, but since you asked, and a moderator (and other posters) seem to agree, I’m just going to put it plainly:
It’s because you’re stupid and low class. You spell “you” as “u” and “to” as “2”. You admit that college was “too hard 4 me.” You say things like “I was getting dissed” and “hoes and bitches.” That’s before mentioning that you claim to be low-income, but spend half of your money on sex. These are the reasons you have a low-paying job, not the “unfair economy” that somehow made college too difficult.
You can fix this by reading books, studying subjects of interest, refining your speech/writing, and learning a marketable skill.
Sorry, mods. I’m just trying to help.
There is an unjustly neglected classic of American letters, called Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. More people have heard of the Monroe film than the novel that inspired it, but the film ditched most of the plot–beautiful poor girl abandons the good man who loves her in favor of a joyless existence in a suburban wasteland. It’s a comedy.
I mention this because I think **Yakuza **here has the chops to write the 21st century version. Yakuza, ignore everyone who says your prose would be better if you used Standard American English spelling and grammar. You have a unique and powerful voice–use it.
Also, read Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. Somebody has to.