A couple of things: First, the situation in Afghanistan is hardly the same as the situation was in Hawaii, unless you consider it rank American imperialism to attempt to feed starving people. Missionaries were sent to Hawaii with the primary purpose of converting the natives. Aid workers were sent to Afghanistan to provide humanitarian aid.
Second, I have never said that people must have sympathy for the aid workers’ ordeal. What bugs me is the generalized attack on these people (not merely a withholding of sympathy, but an attack) just because they’re Christian – the assertion that because they’re Christian they shouldn’t have been there in the first place; the assertion that they withheld aid until they could preach to people; the assertion that if they were really CHRISTIAN they would have “kept their mouths shut” – even though there is NO evidence they EVER withheld aid and even though they might well have a religious obligation to discuss their religion if asked. (Many evangelical Christians consider that a duty.)
Third, there is a double standard at work here. Lord yes, let’s criticize the Taliban for oppressing the people of Afghanistan in ways big and small, but by God when it comes to laws forbidding people to talk about their faith – laws significantly more unjust than not allowing people to own a television – well, those are laws that ought to be respected.
These are people who gave up everything to go to Afghanistan to help others. They risked their lives to discuss their faith, knowing they were breaking the law in doing so – a move no less gutsy and no less an act of conscience for being foolhardy. They lived their beliefs to the best of their abilities, and almost lost their lives because of it. To point to such people as examples of what is wrong with Christianity, or to indict the whole religion on the basis of their actions is ridiculous.