Well, and the funny thing is - since I can’t figure out the source of Oak’s utter hatred of me - his bitterness at that childish little discussion may actually be the reason for it. Which would mean he wasn’t just having a one day bad tantrum, but actually created a years-long hatred for me over it.
The funny thing is that I’m so gentle about it too - saying that we’d love to have you, and please give this a try, and this is why we all think it would be better - and he’s flipping out saying CHANGE IS SCARY AND I HATE YOU!!! WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME PERSONALLY!!!
Another choice quote:
The only reason you’re changing this is because everyone in the group wants to change it! THAT’S NO GOOD REASON! AND I HATE CHANGE! OH GOD CHANGE IS SCARY.