Oblivious to what others are thinking, blessing or curse?

I’m leaning toward blessing, seeing how much mental anguish it causes others who aren’t oblivious.

Or my brain is a lot more empty or quieter than others. I get the obvious things, but the kind of in depth theorizing that others do nope.

I’ll admit it can be a curse with certain jobs.

If your resulting behavior is a blessing to you and a curse to those around you, how should that be scored?