I don’t know…nothing really…just tired of the whole fricking thing. And he is probably not going to understand., I nhis mind it’s going to be one of those “she just came up with it out of the blue” but he’s done this stupid shit for years and I’m just tired.
Everything is great when we are together. Tells me how much he NEEDS me but then phone calls and emails go unanswered. If he were just a normal guy like Dave or 6…or even Wyatt that would probably be cool but when you add Studmuffins eye for the ladies and the fact that he lives nearly 100 miles away from me…it just isn’t doing my insecurities any good. I don’t need a guy who is going to screw with my head at 36 years old when I am sitting here divorced raising three kids approaching ,middle age…screw it. I am still attractive, can still catch my own guys. I’m not going to waste my time worrying over what he’s doing and why he can’t bother to drop me one single silly email in a week’s time. Somebody else can worry about that. BEsides…the simple truth is…I am lonely. I want someone who is around to talk to and be with me more often than just one day on the weekends.
Good for you for not waiting around for him to get his head screwed on straight. You’re a beautiful, smart, fun, woman… lots of men out there for a woman like you.
ssshhhhhhhhhh Y’all didn’t see me here…
The five words should be lower, higher, that’s the spot. 
Oh, honey, I’m sorry. No, you don’t need the games. Raising kids is hard; if he isnt up for the step-dad thing, that’s one thing. But at least he could come out and say it, instead of forcing you to try to figure out what the hell he’s thinking this time. And yes, I know all about “wait, now you’re angry 'cause of this? Why didn’t you say anything about it before?” “I did, you flippin doofus. You just don’t listen until i get pissed, that’s all.”
Been there, done that, am currently embroiled in it at home. I’m speaking nicely and in a reasonable tone, so he thinks it’s not all that urgent. AAARGGHHHHH!!! :pant,pant: Sorry, sorella, got caught up. Back to you. You do deserve to be respected, as well as loved. (((((mipiace))))). Tell him what you need. Give him limits. Tell him it’s up to him. And, though I hate to use them, I think it’s ultimatum time. No more playing house. You guys should have moved beyond that by now.
Hmm, this one might work…another old friend from Italy…he’s actuall a little smart but…he just offered to mail himself to me…naked. [sigh] I love being a girlhttp://www.tailofthedragon.com/slayers/2003/hoelle.html
Hm. I dunno, kinda prefer:
harder
faster
yes
DONTSTOP(one word)
now
Thanks Maureen! I’ve been telling him for years. 'nuff is enuff already…you know it was that was with my husband and when it was all said and done he was the same way “Why didn’t you SAY something?” DAMMIT I DID - nine ways to Sunday for 6 out of 14 Fricking YEARS!!! …AAaaarrrrrrgh!!! whatever. When I’m dun,. I’m dun.
So do you like my little motorcycle friend? He lives in DC…might have to take a road trip.
Okay so he can know …40 words…all those we mentioned plus how to go away when I get tired of him.
Gee, Thanks … that’s a compliment, right? kinda?
Let me get this right, there’s Studmuffin, whom alla women go for, in a heart beat, and who’s getting dessert offers left-right-up-down … then there’s the ‘normal guys’ like D.Bear and If6 … then … there’s … “or even Wyatt” … :rolleyes:
(trying to do the math … does “or even Wyatt” rank higher or lower then “cool and everything … but …”
Am I gaining stature as the women folks get to know me better … or do I “look” better before they got to know me …) 
Oh, and to answer all the requests: Red, Black, remarkable amounts of Beige and ‘natural’ colors … and * yes … picture 5-6" heels … some 9’s on platforms, interesting design work … oh, and some very very nice tummys!(just to tie it into the thread)*
He is a cutie. A little young for my taste, but fun as far as disposables go. Trouble is, hon, I don’t think you’re looking for disposable. :sigh:…we need ice cream. Godiva, I think. Wyatt!! Where is that guy?
Oh good, the fall colors are ones I can, and do wear, and actually have. 
Wyatt, I am not sure where you found me wquoting “or een Wyatt” nbut it is waaaaay out of context here and you know it.
Maureen, the motorcycle cutie is…27…{giggle} verrry young verrrrrrrrry disposable and as a whole I am not looking for disposable but for the moment I am. Whenever I end a relationship I have this nasty habit - I always have - I rebound. I could just sit back and fall head over heels for the next guy I go out with. ORRRR I can purposely go and find me a dixie cup (my terminology) to go have a wild two-week meaningless fling with. It’s completely irrational and reckless and scads of fun and somewhere around dawn one morning I will look at his sweet young face and go WTF am I doing with this kid? Gnaw my arm o0ff and sneak out the door…okay maybe not quiiiiite that dramatic but you know what I mean…I pretty much party like a rock star make an ass of myself and get it all out of my system and then come back down to earth. Keeps me from sitting at home and pining over what’s his name and also keeps me from being at home when those inevitable calls come from him trying to make up to me - I am such a sucker for those make up calls. Besides if he calls and I am out with someone else (Especially someone young and cute) it will piss him off probably to the point of going out with someone yong and cute himself which will seal the deal of us breaking it off permenantly…crazy but true.
Oh good, I have a lot of black from living in Italy (Italians wear black year round for some reason) and the red…is it bright red or burgundy or claret…I love wine colors better…looks much better with my hair.
There you are. You startled me. No hiding from Mama like that. Now quit expostulating and listen…sh…quiet…I happen to have it on very good authority that Dave is hiding several pints of Godiva in the freezer. Grab 3, and three spoons and bring 'em back to the tub, got it? Dark chocolate, but it’ll have to do in a pinch. And NO TELLING ON MAMA, EITHER
SD, we 'Babes make our own rules. Screw those fashionistas. WE decide what is fashionable in this room. It currently happens to be skin and toenail polish.
mipiace I can totally empathize. Not sure you wouldn’t be better off with one of the guys here, though. They all seem quite knowledgable about what women like. Or, maybe that’s because they’re better than most at listening.
gasp My toes are bare!
Go to the freezer get the pints …
I’m helping!!!
You have a point there. These guys are like my “guy buds” you know guys I hang out with and bond with and bitch about other guys with and have hot tub party sammiches with but I am not sure about really dating… (DON’T SMACK ME GUYS) maybe you just know me too well or I know you too well or …I don’t know. You are just in a different catagory, or maybe I am just fed up on guys in general…maybe I just need to have my toes done…{sigh} pass the icecream.
You know the last three relationships I have been in are 1) my ex husband (bleh) 2) Dan the doctor who left me with little or no notice to go to california for a job and 3) Studmuffin (whew…I’m not doing so welll…I think I need to hang at some bars with uh…more estrogen)
Oh, NO!! We can’t have that. C’mon in the tub and we’ll fix it.
Maureen, which of us are you talking to?
go to the freezer get more pints…
Cho- Co - Late time!!!