If it won’t fit in your hands (diameter) it is TOO big.
If it reaches the back of a girl without pushing it is just going to work. I actually think that we are built for different sizes, the trick is just to find the right match.
I just wanted to shamefacedly admit that after all the time she’s been posting here, I JUST got the joke behind Sue Dunhym’s name. I can’t believe I didn’t see it sooner.
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I personally am only of middlin’ length but thicker than average… and several partners have told me that combination is their favorite…
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I agree with Sue. I prefer thickness over a longer penis. I had a boyfriend who was too big. He was pretty big even when he wasn’t erect. I had my share of bleeding after intercourse because of his size.
Another nod with Sue. Girth is certainly better than length–I’d much rather be with someone blessed with wide rather than long. Too long? I’d say more than 7 1/2" for me. Dated someone who was 8 1/2" and sex was very painful. I do like it when the guy is just the right size where the hips can meet during the thrust–that kind of friction is a very good thing.
I have found that too much girth can be bad too. I knew a guy once whose penis was bigger around than a coke can and he was too big to do anything with. Actually his penis was almost the exact size of a coke can length and girth wise. His was natural.
I new several unnaturally large men (ie pumpers) who managed to destroy their penises to a girth of a coffee can. Now that was gross. They basically ruined their own penises in an effort to look “good.” It was just gross. Especially since as they pumped most of them became mishapen and lumpy. But that is off topic. I will just leave it with they made themselves way too big.
As for length, I prefer somewhere between 5 inches up to around 8 or so. I have only ever seen one that was larger than 9" but it wasn’t really very thick. I prefer thickness over length but not as thick as the ones mentioned above.
Too big = “I will merrily fake my orgasm so you will get the hell off of me and let me go home and sit on an ice pack for about two weeks to repair the damage you’ve done, especially since you are giving NO thought to my pleasure at all, and you have the technique of a rabid wildebeest, because for some reason you think your 12” long 3" diameter cock gives you carte blanche to think you’re a stud when you’re actually pathetic."
Not that this has ever happened to me or anything. <whistle…>
A pumper is one who pumps his penis with a vacuum pump specifically designed for that purpose. They come with all shape and size cylinders from about 2" in diameter to around 12" in diameter. The movie Austin Powers showed one in his apartment at one time.
The pump if overused or used improperly destroys the spongy tissue within your penis. If you have ever played with a balloon too much and made it loose its elasticity then you know what I am talking about. A pump essentially inflates your penis to a size it was not meant to have. It is not particularly displeasurable to use but neither is it pleasurable.
The guys whom I knew who destroyed their penises to the girth of a coffee can essentially overpumped themselves so now their penis is the equivalent diameter to a coffee can. They can no longer maintain an erection nor can they get one without the pump. It is really sad.
