I don’t know where to put this thread, but let’s start here.
I’m not trying to argue if it’s ok for an older woman ‘coming on to’, or sleeping with an under-aged boy. I feel it should be taken just as seriously as any variation of under-age + older situation.
That said; I did have an attractive teacher’s aid flirt with me and invite me out once when I was 17. I didn’t go for it, but I can’t help but wonder what would’ve happened if I had. Is it so unbelievable that it could’ve improved my life?
…as long as I kept my mouth shut, which I think I would’ve, because I knew what was on the line for her if I did tell. I lost my virginity late, and considering my situation, then and now, I think I may have actually benefited. Is that bad?
I think there are rare cases in which younger rape victims don’t even consider themselves “victims”.