I don’t know if this is a guy thing, but I like situations that are clean and clear. If you’re not interested in me, move on, and if I’m not into you, I’ll do the same. If we’re mutually interested then let’s drop the games and figure out if we’re compatible.
Since she’s “stalking” him on cupid, what does that say to the lady dopers? I would guess she felt dissed when the convo stopped so she baited him to re-initiate contact. I’ve known women who, even if they don’t want me, want me to want them so that they can have their little power trip of declining to date me. Or, could it be that she’s really into him and couldn’t let go? Or has the OP made himself appear to be “unattainable” and now she’s going to work like crazy to attain him? Hmm, you better keep us posted, OP.
I don’t mean to stereotype (Hell hath no fury…) that women only do these things. All of my experience is in the pursuit of women, however. Just wondering how the fairer sex perceives it.