Question inspired by lieu’s response in surreal’s
thread about men and cheating;
It seems like I read some variation of “Oh sure, I’ve had PLENTY of opps, but I wouldn’t cheat” a lot around here. It seems to come from men more than women, I think.
Honestly, I’m a little puzzled.
One can tell whether another finds them attractive, or probably even if one could get them in bed if one were to pursue it, but that doesn’t seem like an actual opportunity to me.
Is there a little swaggering going on here?
How do you define an opportunity? It sounds to me like some Dopers (not to pick on lieu, he’s just the most recent example of something I’ve wanted to ask for a long time) are hinting that they have had people pointedly ask them to have an affair/sleep with them/flashed their boobies and wiggled their eyebrows/whatever.
Is this the case?
If not, set me straight.
if so, give me some juicy details!