And the picky eater in question is only ten months old, and I’m not even sure she’s “picky”, it may be her lack of teeth bothering her. Anyway, here is the situation:
My daughter is a congenitally slow eater. She’s also never been super enthusiastic about eating. She doesn’t have a whole lot of patience for it. She’s also a fierce individualist and no longer accepts spoon feeding and barely accepts bottles. She can’t yet handle a spoon or get very much out of her sippy cup, so things are tough right now.
She is also a skinny baby, at 75th percentile for height and 25th for weight. She was born at the 60th percentile for weight, and that began dropping off when she was six months old. The doctor has said that if it drops again at her twelve month appointment, we’ll need to run some labs on her to make sure there isn’t a health problem.
She’s also, right now, SO uninterested in eating (and SO interested in crawling, climbing, and eating lint from the floor) that sometimes she won’t eat enough in the course of the day to let her sleep through the night. Then I have to get up for a 2am feeding. That makes me tired.
So here’s the issue: there are a few finger foods which I know she will eat with gusto, in large amounts. They are buttered pasta, cottage cheese, green beans and oranges. There’s a constellation of other foods that she will eat sometimes, and of course many other foods we’ve never tried on her.
I don’t want to raise a picky eater, and was going to just give her some of whatever we were eating every night. Well, that often results in her eating no dinner at all and needing MULTIPLE overnight feedings. I don’t think I can continue with this hard line, especially since her intolerance for the bottle (a “feeding” is often 3-4 ounces) means she requires lots of them to fill in when she doesn’t eat solids.
Doper Parents: in this situation, which course would you take,
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Continue the hard-line eat-what-we-eat tactic, make the baby skinnier, keep losing sleep
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Give her the things she wants often and offer new things sometimes, watch her miss some meals and not gain as much weight as she could, lose some sleep
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Just give her what she wants to eat, hope she gains weight on it, sleep well.
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