I agree with tsarina; I thought Ventura Flores was selfish and a chronic malcontent, and that ended up having really tragic consequences for her daughter Nora, who I really liked. Although the show focused more on Nora, according to the PBS website, at least one other daughter also wasn’t allowed to attend high school in California (it says “their older children are not allowed to attend high school”).
I was fascinated by the series and thought that it gave a really vivid picture of what it’s like to leave your country for new one. I liked that they included people who were immigrating for a variety of reasons, some fleeing bad situations in their own countries and others seeking opportunities in the U.S.
Still, some of their experiences were the same – how heartwrenching it is to leave loved ones behind, and how disorienting it is to be someplace where everything is new and alien to you and you don’t understand how anything works. I also liked that the series followed the people for years so that you could see the progress they were making as they began to adjust to the culture and the language.
There were other sad stories besides the Flores family’s. I thought it was heartbreaking to watch Israel Nwidor’s cheerful, optimistic spirit get crushed. At the beginning, even though it was scary to hear him in the refugee camp saying that he’d heard that there was no racism in America, or at least not in the North, I really did think that his happy, hopeful nature would be an asset that would make him more resilient than his countrywoman Barine (the activist’s sister), who seemed kind of whiny when she first got to America and wasn’t treated like royalty the way she had been in Nigeria. In the end, though, Barine seemed to be doing better than Israel, although to be fair, his beloved older brother had just died as the documentary was ending.
I also thought it was sad when Naima, the Palestinian, said that she didn’t want to be an American and that she felt no loyalty to this country – and with good reason, with the anti-Arab stuff that was going on at the time she said that – and I also felt sorry for her because I thought Hatem was kind of a blowhard and a jerk. She totally cracked me up when he was teaching her to drive and after he yelled rudely at her to “STOP!” he said that she had to be prepared to stop in case a kid ran out in front of the car and she said “How about if you get in the front of the car and I’ll see if I can stop!” It was also horrible when someone torched the Arab-American center; as much as I disliked Hatem, I felt really bad for him then.
I think the only really happy ending was for Ricardo Rodriguez, the Dominican pitcher who made it to the big leagues (he plays for the Texas Rangers now). He was very sweet, so it was nice to see him succeed. I guess Barine was doing okay by the end too, having bought a house and seen her daughters graduate from high school and go off to college.
Still, as depressing as parts of it were, I’m glad I watched this show and would definitely recommend it.