Generally, up until recently I have been accustomed to me being the one having too much to drink and embarassing myself others. Actually, this only happened once or twice, and from then on, I was pretty careful about how much I had to drink. I wasn’t around drunk people until very recently (most of my friends don’t drink and I seldom go to bars/parties).
Last week, my best friend’s parents threw a party at his house. His parents generously offered me some of their tequila (the bottle they got cost a hundred dollars- best tequila I ever tasted as well). My friend’s roomate (another friend of ours) got really drunk while we were playing Dreamcast. Far more drunk than I was. All of the sudden she mumbles “Do you want to see me naked?” and I mutter “yeah right” because she’s a pretty big tease normally and as of late I don’t let her tempt me with any pseudo-seduction anymore. Well she then took off her shirt and bra :eek: and stood in the doorway giggling suddenly the game we were playing was boring. Then she says “I don’t want to get completely naked because I’m on my period” and I said “what?!” in confusion and disbelief at everything that was going on. She then sticks her hand in her pants and reveals that there is blood on her hands :eek: as if it wasn’t enough that I am very freaked out about menstruation in general…as quietly drunk as I was it was just too bizarre and wierd for me and I asked my best friend to drive me home. WIth any luck she will have forgotten the whole incident; if anything it will be easier for me to forget.
Ooo a little tmi That would be extremely weird… even I don’t get that weird when I’m drunk. My inhibitions run so deep that I definately don’t get that weird (and I remember everything)
Incubus - assuming that this is not normal behavior for your friend, once we get past the titillation (boobs) and disgust (blood), this could be a big deal - as you already know, and others have supported, this is not normal behavior.
Is your friend okay? - did she make it home okay? Yeah, she’s at somebody’s parents’ house, but being drunk and topless isn’t conducive to being treated well.
If she is okay, is she aware of what she did?
Have you or somebody closer to her confronted her about having a drinking problem?
I am glad you got away from an uncomfortable situation, but you called this person a friend (“another friend of ours”) and you should treat her that way.
Sorry for the preachiness, but what if that was you letting the alcohol do the talking for you?
Incubus - assuming that this is not normal behavior for your friend, once we get past the titillation (boobs) and disgust (blood), this could be a big deal - as you already know, and others have supported, this is not normal behavior.
Is your friend okay? - did she make it home okay? Yeah, she’s at somebody’s parents’ house, but being drunk and topless isn’t conducive to being treated well.
If she is okay, is she aware of what she did?
Have you or somebody closer to her confronted her about having a drinking problem?
I am glad you got away from an uncomfortable situation, but you called this person a friend (“another friend of ours”) and you should treat her that way.
Sorry for the preachiness, but what if that was you letting the alcohol do the talking for you?
She lives with my best friend…in his parents house personally I find it a rather unusual arrangement but I digress.
She was fine. She fell asleep not long after I left, and was still asleep 12 hours later when my best friend drove me back to his house so I could pick up my car. I made no mention of what went on, chances are if she remembers she’s terribly embarassed about it now. She just had way more to drink than she ever had before. My best friend kept an eye on her to make sure she was okay.
She’s a pretty big tease even without the alcohol. She’s flashed us several times in the past just to get the :eek: reaction out of us.
I’d say it’s a little premature for an intervention. I get the impression the people involved are fairly young, and I know I embarrassed the hell out of myself once or twice while I was learning my limits. As long as she’s safe, I say no bloo… errr, no harm no foul.
Watch out that it doesn’t become a pattern, though.