This might sound ridiculous–but I think there are a lot of animal-lovers here, so I would really like some input. My question is: how do you deal with a pet’s death? Or your limited ability to care for your pets?
I had two guinea pigs and one died about a year and a half ago and I’m still so sad about it. The other is still alive, and I’m always worried for when he dies. (Plus I feel guilty that he’s lonely, but I can’t get him a mate because it would have to be a spayed female or they might not get along, and that’s not easy to find and I don’t have the funds to make it happen–plus if I keep getting another one each time one dies, this cycle will never end, and I don’t think I can handle it).
I feel like there’s no way to feel any better about this, but there must be, I guess? I know other people have pets and love them and still manage to move on with their lives when their pets die. I take the best care I can of my pets. I give them the premium food and bought the biggest cage commercially available and all (but then I just feel bad that I didn’t make my own bigger cage, like the websites say to, but I don’t have room). But I can’t give them as much attention or cage space as I feel I should (that’s why I got the second one–to keep the first one company, but now I only have the second one left, so what do I do?)>
When my guinea pig died I even posted on some pet loss boards, but those people had ideas about “the rainbow bridge” or something, where pets wait for their owners. Well, I wished I believed in something like that, but I don’t. If you don’t believe in that kind of thing, but still have pets that you love, how do you deal with their limited lifespan?