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Well, lets see. She is now 4’6" and weighs 85 lbs.
She has to be lifted, moved, washed, toiletted, and fed. It is way easier to maipulate a shorter, lighter lump than someone who is 5’6" and 130 lbs. The parents are doing all the work themselves, and they arent getting any younger.
AS to the hysterectomy? Why the hell not? would you like to have to deal with her if she turned out to be the type female who had hell periods with huge cramps and bleeding? Not just the mess of dealing with the blood but the CRYING. She is developmentally 6 months old. Infants that age CRY when they hurt. They cry when hungry and wet also. Hungry and wet can be solved in a few minutes. Cramps can go on for not just hours, but DAYS. Imagine her crying from the pain for days? As to the breast buds, why not. They don’t do anything, and breast tissue is a possible cancer location, so why not.
To me euthanasia as an infant would have been a much better idea. 
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It’s a hard thing to even contemplate, but I have to agree with you and the parents as far as stunting her growth and the hysterectomy. She will never, ever have any use for her uterus, it will only have the potential to cause her discomfort and make her care even more difficult. ISTM that anything that makes it easier for her parents to care for her is in her best interest as well.
I do wonder about the decision to remove her breast buds, though. I think there needs to be a much better reason than “why not?” Yes, they could potentially harbor cancer, but the chances of any one individual developing breast cancer are low, and people with such extreme disabilities as hers usually (in my understanding) have a much shorter life expectancy, making cancer a non-issue.
I’m just speculating, but I can think of a couple reasons to stop her breast growth, neither of which is entirely satisfactory to me. The parents might simply want to maintain her childlike appearance. I can sort of understand wanting this from an emotional standpoint, but as it doesn’t benefit her care, I don’t think it’s a good reason for the surgery. They might also be trying to desexualize her, possibly to protect her from predators if/when her parents are unable to care for her and have to put her in a care facility, or to make it psychologically easier for her father to help care for her. Presumably he helps his wife bathe and dress their daughter, and he might feel that this would become extremely awkward, if not inappropriate, once her body begins sexual development. Sexual predators are a concern in facilities where patients are unable to communicate, but I don’t think they’re common, nor that her not having breasts would be much of a deterrent (particularly since her infertility would attract a predator who was looking for a victim). As for her father’s comfort/discomfort in caring for his daughter, it seems to me that the everyday effort and mundanity would eliminate any sexuality, and I just don’t see this contributing materially to the ease of her care.