Was it the woman you married, or your children? If your kids were old enough to hijack your internet account in 2002, that certainly makes their recent accomplishment of selling water outside a venue in order to pick up a few hundred bucks much less impressive.
And its certainly not unreasonable for me or anyone else to assume that the thinks posted on your account were written by you.
Por que no los dos?
Those little scofflaws were his grandchildren.
Oh well.
I’m sort of amused that whoever made those posts spends lots of time thinking about EXACTLY what gay men do with each other. It reminds me of some analysis of Howard Stern’s listeners back before he went to a subscription service, and it found that the people that thought he was disgusting and claimed to hate the show listened for twice as much time as the people that liked him.
He’s been exceptionally clear about which option he’d chooses when he says something racist.
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This woman?
Well, that was the time that aliens came into my den and stole my computer! Ya, that’s the ticket! Stole it and posted terrible stuff under my name. I got it back because … I’m with the FBI! Ya that’s it, the FBI!
Well, how else would they know what to complain about? 
You’re a piece of shit, full stop. I predict that one day it will come back to bite you hard in the ass when you fuck with the wrong person of darker skin tone, hopefully in the form of legal action, civil or criminal. Because that’s how despicable you are.
My mom used to say stuff like that every now and then. She just came from a different era when people would say “The Chinese are …” or “The Indians don’t …” So I used to tell her all the time that it was really stereotyping and kind of borderline racist. She used to argue with me about it. Then about three years ago when we got on the phone she said “Beep, you need to stop building murder robots. But also, you’re right, what I was saying was racist, and I appreciate you helping me realize it.” My mom can grow up and realize that this way of thinking is stereotyping and kind of racist. Maybe you can too @pkbites.
Eyes Beep suspiciously
Hearing the whir of the servos inside