Please explain the law that would force parents of a 21 year old to pay college tuition.

This should have been explained by the news reporter(s). But it wasn’t.

I’m looking for a factual legal answer. Under what basis can parents be forced to pay the bills of an adult that is not in any way mentally disabled? Especially bills that haven’t occurred yet (the adult woman **wants **to attend college)? 2. Would the choice of college be relavant (i.e. residents of a state gets a discounted education at a state university compared to out of state fees)

This may eventually drift into imho. But lets establish the factual legal grounds the judge used first.

http://www.philly.com/philly/news/new_jersey/20141114_Tuition_lawsuit_pits_daughter_vs__Mom_and_Dad.html

The only legal way I can think of that would oblige someone to pay for college tuition is a divorce settlement that mandates each parent pay for college.

Less a law than it is a contractual arrangement.

From the first link in the OP:

A divorce 17 years earlier (when this girl was 4) can permanently obligate both parents to send her to college whenever and where ever she decides to go?

Temple is a state university but she’ll pay out of state rates.

Edit time out bit me.

I can’t tell from their web site if Temple is a state university or private. Private school tuition rates can go through the roof.

Sure. It is basically a contract. Whether it is 17 minutes or 17 years makes little difference. Be careful about the terms of any contract you sign.

I see now. Divorces create special contractual circumstances. Thank you.

If that’s the divorce agreement, and it hasn’t been amended since it was signed off on, then that’s what’s in effect and all parties must abide by it. As long as there is nothing illegal in a contract, the contract prevails. It’s that simple.

But since the daughter isn’t a party to the contract, couldn’t the parents just amend it now and not pay anything?

I will say it seems a little perverse that a child’s higher education is better guaranteed by a divorce than it is by parents who stay together.

Interesting question. IANAL but I think the court tries to see to the “best interests of the child”. So, while the child is not a party to the contract, I am not so sure the court would be ok with clearing the parts of the divorce contract that sees to the child’s well being.

I do not know the legality of this though…an attorney should weigh in.

That was my thought too. My wife and I sent two girls through state university. Whether they went or not depended on their grades in high school and grades they earn in college. We were willing to pay the tuition if the girls applied themselves and studied. Thankfully they both kept an acceptable gpa and one graduated. The other one is a junior this year.

It’s an eye opener to find out a divorce could change that.

In 1975, a New Jersey man named Melvin Newburgh was killed in an automobile accident. He was survived by his second wife Joan, and a 19 year old son by his first wife named Steven. He died without a will, and according to New Jersey law at the time, since he had died intestate, Steven, as his only son, was entitled to 2/3 of the estate and Joan, as his widow, was entitled to 1/3. The proceeds of the Estate were distributed in 1977, and everybody was happy. Then, in 1978, the Estate got a wrongful death settlement from the insurance company of the other drivers in the car accident in the amount of $100,000. Now, the fun began.

It seems that both Joan and Steven, now that there was real money involved, both began to think that maybe they shouldn’t have to share the payout…maybe the 2/3-1/3 distribution wasn’t quite so fair. Steven struck first, claiming that Joan (who had herself been married twice before) wasn’t legally married to his father. She had gotten a Mexican divorce from her first husband in 1962, which Steven claimed was invalid. Therefore, she wasn’t free to marry Melvin. (In those days, it was hard to get divorced in New Jersey and some other states, but easy to get divorced in Mexico, so couples wanting a divorce would often go to Mexico for that purpose.) Therefore, she wasn’t really his wife and not entitled to money from the wrongful death claim.

Joan struck back. The money from a lawful death claim, according to the law, is for the benefit of those who are being dependent for support by the dead individual at the time of his or her death. When poor Melvin died, though, Steven was an adult, over 18. He wasn’t Melvin’s legal responsibility any more, even though he was in college. The bum needed to get a job and stop trying to take Joan’s money.

Neither of them willing to budge on their positions, they did what people usually do in these situations, and took it to the court to settle. It went to the trial court, and appellate court, that I won’t get into here, and in 1982, it went to the New Jersey Supreme Court as Newburgh v Arrigo (Both Joan and Steven were Newburghs, although I guess Steven would have contested that. The Arrigos were the people who had caused the accident that killed Melvin, and therefore the defendants in the lawful death suit, but, other than setting things into motion, aren’t involved in this story.) It was up to the worthies of the New Jersey Supreme Court to decide.

First, it dealt with Steven’s claim against Joan (that the Mexican divorce was invalid). The court said that they weren’t really in any position to know what happened in Mexico 20 years ago, but that there’s a presumption that marriages are valid. It was up to Steven to show that the divorce, and therefore Melvin and Joan’s marriage was invalid, and he didn’t really do that. Melvin and Joan certainly thought they were married…they had a public wedding ceremony, they filed jointly on their taxes, she played golf at his country club. As far as everybody knew, they were married, and the court had no reason to disbelieve it. Steven had to proof they weren’t, and he couldn’t. So much for his claim.

Now, what about Joan’s claim that Steven, being over 18 at the time of Melvin’s death, wasn’t being supported by Melvin? The court now looked at that.

The law says that a parent has the legal obligation to support his child until the child is emancipated. There are multiple ways this can happen. The child can get married. The child can join the military. The courts can decide that emancipation is in the child’s best interest. But, with a few exceptions, children under 18 usually not emancipated. So, what happens when a child turns 18.

Well, generally, a parent doesn’t have to support a child once they reach the age of majority. However, a parent has the obligation to give their child a necessary education. There are a bunch of cases, the court notices, where after a divorce, a college student is awarded support from the non-custodial parent. The court starts to consider why this is.

In the past, says the court, college educations were reserved for the elite, but now, we’re living in a time where there are all sorts of colleges, able to provide post secondary education at an affordable cost for almost everyone. Some parents can’t pay for their kids tuition, and some can only pay for part of it, and some can pay for all of it. But generally, the court says, if the parents are financially capable, they should contribute to the higher education of their children who are capable students. In appropriate circumstances, parental responsibility includes the duty to assure children of a higher education and even a post graduate one.

There are certain factors the courts should use to determine this; whether the parent, if he were still living with the child, would have contributed, the effect of the background and values of the parent on the reasonableness of the child’s expectation for college. the amount of the contribution sought, the financial resources of the parents and the kid, the aptitude of the child for education, the child’s ability to earn income, the existence of loans and grants, the relationship between parent and child, and the way college will or will not help the child meet their long term goals.

So given all this, the Supreme Court sent the case back down to the trial court, so it could find out if Steven had, given the above factors, proven the likelihood of Melvin contributing to his educations…whether Steven was, under those circumstances, still dependent.

I can think of a few ways a parent might end up obligated to pay college tuition. If a parent started an account with the state with a high interest yield because the understanding was that it would be used for a child’s education (some states have programs like this), the money still technically belongs to the parent, who can withdraw it, for a penalty, but just opening the account might be construed as an oral contract. Also, if the parent said something very specific, not just “I’m going to send you to college,” but “If you finish high school by 18, with a 2.5 GPA, I’ll pay your tuition and dorm, if you get a job and pay your incidental expenses,” that could also be construed as an oral contract. It’s going to depend on the state, what precedents there are, and the luck of the draw in the judge you get. Ask Kim Basinger if you can’t get screwed by “oral contracts.”

I know someone whose parents’ divorce agreement specified that their father was supposed to pay for their college as long as they went in-state (if they went out-of-state, or private, he had to pay them so much a month for four years), in exchange for reduced monthly support payments. The kids were like two and four at the time of the divorce, and the guy was just starting a business. His business ended up failing, and he tried to get out of paying, and his daughters sued him. Their college wasn’t even that expensive, because their mother was a therapist at the student health center where they ended up going (because it was what they could afford with the lawsuit ongoing), so they got a fee discount. It got settled, and I think his second wife actually ended up ponying up the money to make everything go away, but what a lousy way to have to choose a school.

I’m confused. Intestacy rules are the equivalent of a will. I’m not familiar with an intestacy system that vies inheritance to dependency or being under age 18?

It was the proceeds of a wrongful death lawsuit in that story that were tied to dependence. From NEWBURGH v. ARRIGO | 88 N.J. 529 (1982) | 88nj5291381 | Leagle.com

I’ve been looking for a test case to challenge these laws and/or decisions as being unconstitutional. How can the government simply take money from one adult and give it to another? Imagine a situation where a court ordered, say, Northern Piper, without any contract or tort damages, to simply pay me $5,000.

Wouldn’t Northern Piper have a good constitutional argument? Yes, the payee in this case is my offspring, but why does that matter? If they are over 18, they are legal adults and my obligation has ended.

Thanks for the summary of the Newburgh v Arrigo case. I wonder how much of the $100,000 was left after the son and the second wife were done suing each other.

It’s really not by all that much. It’s not as though the divorce decrees don’t take into account what help the child could have expected if the parents stayed married - when two minimum wage workers divorce , the child support order is not going to include tuition at a private college. It might include the same level of child support paid during high school.

Normally, it’s the custodial parent who is trying to get the child support order enforced. Cases where the kid is suing both parents are unusual - and have happened even when the parents were still married. See here. In both cases the parents claim the kid left home voluntarily and emancipated herself and someone else took the kid in. And both cases were in NJ - I wonder if that Newburgh decision has something to do with it.

It’s normal for divorces to include stipulations for college tuition. But I didn’t notice any mention of this in the articles from the OP. I can’t tell if the decision is independent of the divorce.