This morning, I learned that a woman that has been my boss, my mentor, and my friend for the last several years passed away. It was not entirely unexpected, as she’d been seriously ill (cancer) for several months, but we were hoping she had a little more time.
I’ve been asked to deliver the Eulogy. I’ve never done anything like this before, and I’m looking for any pointers anyone can offer. The funeral will be in a Southern Baptist church. I’m not a Baptist, and am not familiar with their customs. Obviously, I’m a layman–well, heathen, actually–but if there is a God, I’m hoping maybe he won’t strike me down with a lightning bolt for entering his house just this once. There will be a preacher there to do the religous things, and I have an idea of the thing I want to say, but I need any information or advice on matters of protocol, rituals, curtesies, format, anything about what should and especially what should not be included in a eulogy. It is very important to me that this be done right. I owe my friend the best I can possibly do, and I’ll appreciate any help you can offer. The funeral is scheduled for Tuesday morning, and I’ll be checking this thread often.
Mods, I’m not sure where this post belongs. It’s definitely not mundane or pointless to me, but nothing else seemed appropriate. As long as I can find it, please move it however you deem appropriate.
Thanks,
Oakie